5 problems today's girls face in relationships
Love 2.0 is what we experience practically every day: the "I love you" with double blue check, received but not answered, the delays, the "yes yes I'll write to you" which inevitably turn into tacit promises never to see each other more ... All this is a kind of emotional bungee jumping, without rope obviously.
- · 1. The fear of being left behind: I'm 27, now what do I do?
- · 2. Stalking: I know he is not at work, he is geolocated in the park!
- · 3. I would like, I would not, but if you want: what are you trying to tell me?
- · 4. Very, very calmly: ok feet of lead, but are we moving?
- · 5. Should be better: I saw it in 50 shades of gray
1. The fear of being left behind: I'm 27, now what do I do?
In English it is called #FOMO and it is literally the fear of missing out on something that others know while you ... no. Seeing your friends happily engaged maybe encourages you to be better, maybe it makes you want to go out because they stay with him on Friday nights and you can't stand to make movie night alone and maybe, it pushes you to go out a bit "with anyone, even if you don't feel like it. With a lot, a lot of luck, you could become like one of the Disney princesses you adore so much even if, to be honest, the odds are not very many ...
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2. Stalking: I know he's not at work, he's geolocated at the park!
As much as we force ourselves not to, it is stronger than us. We have so many tools to control him (and even if we didn't have them we would probably invent them) that it is almost impossible to remain in the dark. Last access on WhatsApp, Instagram story or photos in which he was tagged by his friends, make very very difficult to hide.
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3. I would like, I would not, but if you want: what are you trying to tell me?
Random emojis, even more vague answers and allusions. A lot of hints. This is generally the time when we forward the screens to our personal listening group hoping that it is made up of more experienced performers than us.
We can hear for hours, neither of us wants to unbalance because "even though we are in 2017 I don't want to make the first move"and then nothing, at a certain point you stop feeling and nobody understood why.
Or rather, you both know the reason, only you pretend you don't know.
4. Very, very calmly: ok feet of lead, but are we moving?
'No no really, this time I want to do things in my day, the last few times I have done everything in a hurry'.
And so you don't write to each other often because it's too much, you obviously avoid inviting him to your cousin's communion, keep many things to yourself because relationships only work if there is "a bit" of mystery and at a certain point you realize that, despite you have been dating for some time, you know just what underwear he uses and what his Twitter bio is. To be clear, this is enough at the beginning, but if you are directed to the next step it would be good to at least know the names of those who appear in his WhatsApp profile photo ...
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5. It should be better: I've seen it in 50 shades of gray
With the internet we can access an immense amount of films that are not porn, but almost. We look at them and we create absolutely incredible expectations and of a life in the sheets that has very little to do with that of the films we are used to which include: kisses in the rain, torture rooms, love between vampires and unions in a carriage. on a ship that then the film ends badly but we would have said yes just to be able to shoot such a scene with Leonardo DiCaprio.
There are times when expectations can kill desire while others when they can turn it on: maybe just the right soundtrack is enough ...
