Fuck friends: with a friend you can share everything, even the bed!
Thrombamists are more than just friends. They are friends who find themselves exchanging intimacy and sexual pleasure without having a real relationship or involvement. This particular friendship can probably last a long time, at least until one of the two falls in love. Then you are faced with a choice. When you fall in love with someone you would like to tell them many things: do you think this is happening to you too?
What are the trombamis: chronicle of a "bed friendship
Special friends. Friends with benefits. Bed friends. In short, we understood each other. Having a friend can be helpful in periods in which we do not want to commit to a serious relationship for various reasons, because maybe we leave a long story with a broken heart, because we want to escape and have fun, because we prefer to enjoy ourselves life rather than locking ourselves up in a story. In short, because we are not in love. What we feel is a "physical attraction but with an extra gear, because we are friends and this means that there are unwritten rules between us. trust, sincerity and transparency. A sex story with the proviso that we can't hurt ourselves too much, because we're basically not involved and also because you don't have to watch your back from a friend. In short, you can relax. But why do you happen to feel the need for a friend like that? And how do you become a friend? Fuckfriends are a new category of relationship that you happen to encounter frequently: a modern antidote to loneliness, or perhaps to the fear of loneliness, an interval between one overwhelming love and the other. A relationship that is not all in short, but ends as a whole. to be "better than nothing".
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The advantages of being a fuck-friend: always carefree sex
Being horny has its advantages, undeniable. It allows you to experience good sex without complications. But do not think that it is a condition that is tempting only to boys: our society is too full of stereotypes, let's not put others into the field! Having someone to have sex with, do it well and not have to go through so many complications, is as convenient for women as it is for men. A story that is born and ends there, without emotional involvement: there is no obligation to be faithful or to listen for a long time to his outbursts about the bad working day. For some it may have the flavor of freedom, for others it is just a compromise, a settle for something waiting for better. But when two friends go to bed together does the friendship get ruined or not? Behind this question there are hundreds of missed thrombamists. Is it worth making love or perhaps it would be better to say having sex if you end up ruining a "long-term friendship? Before continuing, better clarify: there is nothing right and wrong, in fuck friends and in sex. general.So the answer is that clearly if it goes to both of them it is the right choice. But it is impossible not to think about the consequences, at least for a moment! The fuck-buddies go to occupy a new area of relationships: they break the clear boundary between love and friendship. Why then the boundaries between love and friendship must necessarily be clear? Who would have thought that? The result is an "affectionate friendship, a bit" ambiguous in which at the center there is a choice of sex but with affection, without involvement, and above all without plans for the future, jealousy, exclusivity, all those whims and quarrels for possession. In short, the trombamis have some advantages, don't you think?
Thrombfriends: tips to make the lovebirds last
A friendship like this, be it gay or straight, ends when one of the two fuck buddies is gone. Because he fell in love with another person and this time he wants to invest and get serious or, and worse, he fell in love with what he believed was a fuck buddy until recently. In this way every balance is broken: there is one who would like to continue living carefree sex without plans and the other who would like something more from that relationship. The fuck-buddies, or what remains of them, in the latter case, are destined to get hurt because the positions they live are not reconcilable. Unless this desire to have something more from the other, the desire for an upgrade, in short, is shared. In that case you go to the next level and they all lived happily ever after! If one of the two members has fallen in love with a third person (which is also the most frequent case, probably) the friendship is put to the test. Does it still make sense to be sexless friends? Where will all the complicity gained in these months of sexual conviction end up? Most likely the friends with a little commitment on both sides will be able to become friends and that's it, transforming the previous intimacy into confidence. As long as the new partner accepts! Why think about it, is there anything more to fear than your current man's ex-girlfriend?
