The charm of mature women

This is because the charm has to do with the implied, with the unspoken, and often only the life experience makes a person fascinating, giving him that aura of mystery that arises from the many events he has gone through.

But what is the basis of the spark that goes off between a young man and a woman much older than him?

From a survey recently conducted by CougarItalia.com, a portal dedicated to mature women who prefer the company of younger boys, on a sample of 1,000 men aged between 18 and 28, it emerged that 58% of young people he is in love with an older woman at least once and of these 23% have seen this interest materialize in something more serious.

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Note that cougar, literally puma, is the term with which she is commonly called the one who, although not very young anymore, hunts for younger and more palatable prey.

The reasons that lead young men to seek sex, affection or even love in relationships with mature women would be mainly to be found in the fact that the latter are more assertive, self-confident, seductive and have a clear idea of ​​who they are and what they want. they are less shy and less inclined to play with male emotions. And while younger women tend to magnify every little thing, on the contrary, older women remain impassive even under pressure and are able to handle any problem.

But also the fact that mature women are more independent, intriguing because they have lived longer and seen more things, are among the reasons that lead more and more young people to take an interest in the over 40s and to build relationships based not only on sex, but also on elements such as trust, respect and the sharing of interests.

Obviously, the fact that the adult woman has a greater experience in terms of eros, less physical insecurities and more inventiveness in terms of sex, constitutes a significant plus for the young man, who appreciates his experience and greater ease under the covers. .

Eventually, then, cougars awaken men's fantasies and make most of them recognize that age is just a number that matters relatively, while their confidence and years of experience are determining factors for a relationship. or for a simple flirt.