6 foolproof tips to increase libido
Is your libido dormant? Don't worry, it can happen to any couple! To seduce and bring your lover back to you, reminding him that he is your partner, play the card of sensuality. Get out of the routine! There are many ways to awaken your libido and make your desire explode. Dare and take the initiative by exploiting the 5 senses to drive him crazy: you will not be disappointed as well as couples who choose these particular sexual practices during intercourse ...
1. Surprise your taste buds!
The throat is no longer a bad defect, but a sign of sensuality.
You've already noticed how restrictive diets don't completely satisfy your taste buds ... Plus, there are many ways to combine food and love.
Take the time to stop in front of the spice stalls, especially those with cardamom, curry and saffron. Let yourself go to the fragrances, try all the olfactory impressions of fruit and vegetables, real food for the senses. Only then will it be time to cook them.There is nothing better than an aphrodisiac cuisine to make him shiver with pleasure.
Chocolate sensation!
Turn your body into a real sweet dessert. In love it is not forbidden to play with food, quite the contrary. You can take the whipped cream from the refrigerator to taste it on your skin, count the number of grapes in your mouth or play the chocolate card, which never fails.
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2. Dare with sound sensations
If your games are a bit routine, sometimes it is enough to venture into the paths of a more sonorous eroticism. the pleasure!
Putting desire into words, both raw and romantic, has incandescent effects that we don't always suspect. So don't hesitate! Tell him you love his body, his sex, his buttocks ... Find words that are tender or strong, capable of stimulating the libido of both.
Also do an erotic courtship, with real images and "undress" it first with words. Concretely, you can also create this tension that leads to passion during the day, with many messages of love decisively hot.
With a nonchalant and sweet voice, count the many delights you have in store for him. Don't hesitate to touch on the subject of so-called taboos. The question is where to find inspiration! The specialists are unanimous. To start talking seductively, let yourself be carried away by the object of your desire and your imagination.
3. Ignite the flame in his eyes again
The motto of the evening will be that he can look but not touch. Offer him a homemade striptease to remind him of the first emotions of passion, for one night, without hiding anything about your anatomy.
1. Sublimate the skin
Apply sparkling and scented oils to achieve a satin-like skin, perhaps after a relaxing Turkish bath or scrub. In addition, the choice of dress is crucial. Remember to highlight the parts of your body that you like. The look is only valid if you feel good about yourself.
2. Set the scene
Create an erotic-sexual atmosphere with scented candles (the best are those with the fragrance of sandalwood or jasmine), soft lighting, music that you like.
3. Action
You can improvise. Give a little languor to your swaying hips, you know how to do it for sure. Start touching yourself on the back and proceed slowly and smoothly: the important thing is to know how to awaken his desire. Of course, it will start devouring you with its eyes. Your hands will constantly move across the surface of your body, but not too fast. Bite your lips and then let the skirt slide to your feet. The game is to unravel ... Remember that a man's lustful gaze will increase a woman's libido.
4. Tickle his sense of smell
For men, the skin is arguably the best aphrodisiac. Brunettes, blondes and redheads don't have the same scent of skin, just hear them talk! Intoxicating and peppery for brunettes, a perfume that arouses curiosity. The lusty blonde recalls the hay that grows in the heat of summer. As for the redhead, doe, her scent is as warm as melted skin.
Even if the role of the sense of smell plays a determining role in the realm of sexuality, this pleasure is often unconscious, mainly due to our reluctance to recognize our "animal" side.
To awaken the libido, you can practice an olfactory "sensualism" that increases desire ten times. Smell her skin, her hair. Breathe in, reinvent love as a source of relaxation, instead of chasing performance. Of course, its natural aromas also benefit from being highlighted by the scent she uses every day.
5. Caress her skin
We have 1800 cm2 of skin with 1,500,000 receptors. We have to use them! The fingertips and lips are the messengers of an ocean of softness. The skin hides a treasure of sensations, caused by touch, by the enveloping caress.
To increase your libido and reap all the possible benefits from caresses, we try to be infinitely present. Surrender is the key word, to rediscover the first sensation, the spontaneity of gestures, creativity. Those who receive the caress can concentrate on their sensations, paying attention to the stimuli that their body is receiving. For this reason, one should not hesitate to guide the partner and his caress to the points where he feels most pleasure.
6. Stimulate the sensitive points
Is there a relationship between acupuncture and libido? The answer is yes! In fact, Chinese medicine treats sexual disorders by acting on the combination of points located on a particular meridian, the Tchong Mo. Drains some of the fundamental energy from the meridians of the liver, spleen, pancreas and kidneys. This allows access to the erotic potential of each individual. Some energy points are very interesting to manually stimulate, to increase libido and the ability to reach orgasm.
The following areas can be massaged with gentle circular pressure, once in a while, for two to three minutes:
- The Supreme Valley: between the inner point of the ankle and the Achilles tendon.
- The original barrier: the lower abdomen area. Four-finger massage below the navel, in the midline.
- The Four Sacred Holes: the four points corresponding to the four holes of the sacrum, at the bottom of the back, on both sides of the gluteal line.
- The Door of Life: under the tip of the second lumbar vertebra, at the height of the iliac crests.
The massage of these points acts on the innervation areas of the gynecological organs and promotes their functioning by stimulating desire.
