8 signs to tell if your partner is a cheater
Betrayal is frightening. Betrayal hurts: the heart, the belly, the head. It does not need to be concrete, when the idea of a betrayal creeps into the mind of those who love disaster it is just around the corner: because in any case it will lead to a fight, because it could imply a lack of trust, because it could be true .
We women are very good in some cases and it takes very little to imagine catastrophic situations already 10 minutes after an unanswered message.
It is also true that there are zodiac signs that are scary in terms of betrayal and, if we are dealing with one of these, anxiety becomes daily bread, look here:
Unless our partner is a clear person and unless yours is a super special relationship, the doubt of a betrayal at least once will have come to you. But how do you know when you really need to worry? Let's see together 8 signs to understand if your partner is a cheater.
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The cheating partner begins to distance himself. They are not always physical distances, they do not move away if you approach them with the body. The distance they set is visual. Perhaps because the eyes are the mirror of the soul and they know perfectly well that certain gazes cannot lie. If your he begins to avoid your gaze, ask yourself two questions.
2. They are much kinder and more loving than usual
There are men who are kind and caring by nature, others who are less so. But if you notice a sudden change in your partner's way of expressing love, perhaps there is some problem. And we are not talking about closure, but its opposite, a loving attitude that seems almost excessive, annoying. is there something strange?
3. Privacy becomes their obsession
If you try to get close to your cell phone, does your partner bark? Or, worse, is it now impossible to find his cell phone around the house? The cell phone for a man is everything that encompasses his concept of privacy. Keeping it tight, away from your prying eyes, can mean fear of getting caught.
© istock.4. Goodbye naturalness: their behavior is incomprehensible
Being a traitor involves a lot of effort: concentration in order not to be discovered, the ability to have two relationships at the same time, the difficulty of remembering all the lies in the queue. This situation creates strange, unusual behaviors that escape those who look at them from the outside, such as suddenly stopping to do something that you used to do and that, it is believed, can go unnoticed. Not for hounds like us!
5. They look for excuses not to have sex
If a man has a drop in desire from time to time it is more than normal: it can depend on tiredness, on thoughts that disturb him, on stress or on simple monotony. But if sexual rejection is masked behind reasons that clearly appear as excuses and run away to bed to sleep if they smell your desire, there is something strange. We must monitor the situation and try, to understand if we are faced with a simple "no" from tiredness, to seduce him differently without obsessing.
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6. They betray themselves by forgetting their lies
Telling anecdotes to cover up a betrayal is a very complex thing: the risk is forgetting the details told, changing the order of events, forgetting to have said a certain thing. When a man frequently changes version of events, or is really under stress, or has something to hide!
7. They shower at unusual times
Do they come home after a night out with colleagues and the first thing they do is a shower? Or do they go to the post office and immediately rush to the bathroom to brush their teeth? If something in your partner's hygienic routine does not come back to you, it may be because he is trying to hide smells and scents that may make you suspicious.
8. They hide the receipts
How to justify a dinner in a romantic restaurant that you are not invited to? How to explain the purchase in a women's store when nothing has arrived to you? Impossible! The remedy is to hide and wisely disappear all the receipts that you usually find scattered around the house or in the pants before every washing machine. Those who betray avoid leaving a trace in every way!
And if yours was just a momentary obsession and you ruthlessly raged against your partner, here's the best way to be forgiven: