Sexy spanking: tips and instructions for use
"Some items used for spanking and whipping can be intimidating at first, but with a little information on how to choose and use them you will change your mind." - Allison said - "The area around the anus and up to the groin is full of nerve endings that can't wait to be stimulated and I'll tell you how ”.
So, to know how to spank “like a pro”, read on!
- · Heating
- · The comunication
- Did we say crotch-less?
- · Find the right spot
- · Try the tools
Heating
For most people, a slap on the "b-side" is not the same as an erotic spanking. Allison argues that the “warm-up” phase is very important, not only to prepare the “b-side” for what lies ahead, but also to start driving your partner crazy.
"Start with a few light pats with the palm of your hand" - he explains - "Then increasing the intensity, until the skin turns red and you understand that the" b side "is ready for a more robust spanking".
If you want to be even more daring, try stroking the red part after the pats: this will intensify the harder spanking that comes next.
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The comunication
We agree that spanking is fun, but you must always be careful not to overdo it. The trick to having good sex, we know, is to talk about it, but communication for those who play this kind of games is not always easy.
“Always be careful of the person you spank, especially pay attention to their body language. It is "okay to ask them if they are okay and if they are having fun. If they want you to be harder or softer" - says Allison.
While there are some basic rules to follow, everyone is different and so it's best to ask your partner what they prefer.
Did we say crotch-less?
If you're the one taking the spanking, there's a tip worth remembering.
Here's what Allison says: “If you're trying to feel something special, then I recommend wearing crotch-less panties, like Coco De Mer's Thong Persephone. more sensitive. Thus, when you are spanked, the already sensitive nerves will be further aroused ”.
Find the right spot
The idea of sensual spanking is to get the most pleasure possible and to achieve this there is a secret technique that can make us more unleashed.
Says Allison: "When using a knob (wood or leather, for example) there is a trick to drive your or your partner crazy. And" finding the "right spot" which, when stimulated, can increase possibility of having an orgasm ”.
Try the tools
Spanking is as good as we and the person taking it enjoy. For this reason, before taking tools such as knobs and whips, it is good to first experiment with them on yourself.
Allison explains: “It's always a good idea to try an instrument on yourself, before using it with someone else. It will allow you to have a better idea of what it feels like and whether it is appropriate to be hard or soft ”.
Then, you know, it is practice that makes perfect. But always remember that it's a game, so it's important never to take yourself too seriously.
