Dreaming of being betrayed: a recurring dream
What can it mean to dream of being betrayed? Not necessarily the dream is a harbinger of misfortune, but when it comes to betrayal we are divided into two large groups: those capable of forgiving and those who instead say to themselves "it is over forever". Here we talk about dreamed and not necessarily real betrayals but take a moment to think if it wasn't just a dream and if your partner had really cheated on you. What would you do?
Dreaming of being betrayed: what does this fact depend on?
As Freudian psychology explains, the manifest content of a dream does not always correspond to the latent content. So, dreaming of being betrayed by your partner or of betraying him is not always connected to a problem in the couple relationship. These dreams can still be unsettling, although often the triggers can be independent of problems with sex, love and jealousy.
Therefore, even if you dream of being betrayed, you must certainly not puzzle or fixate on the alleged relationships of the beloved partner, perhaps running the risk of really cracking the whole relationship, persecuting him with insistent questions or checking his Iphone as soon as he closes in the bathroom. home.
Dreaming of being betrayed is certainly something that hurts a lot, a very painful fact, which can leave you upset when you wake up whether the betrayal is consumed by the official partner or by the lover. And it hurts even more if it happens with your best friend, with a relative, even with your mother. When you dream of being betrayed, perhaps you are afraid of not being up to par in some situations of couple and relationship life or you have problems communicating the insecurities inherent in your soul to your partner.
These dreams can indicate a low self-esteem, feeling useless, inadequate, not appreciated enough by the husband / wife, the lover, the boyfriend, especially if the betrayal occurs with a person who arouses envy for some reason: beauty, age, education, money. It may also hide a strong fear of being left alone, abandoned to oneself like an old fashioned suit completely out of fashion. these opinions and projects towards himself, seeing him in the dream as guilty of infidelity.
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Dreams of cheating. Why, since you have a happy relationship?
Even if you have been faithful in soul and body for a lifetime, it is a fact that it can easily happen to dream of betraying your love with a famous actor, a family friend or an unknown person whom you often do not dream of. you can't even see the face. In this case it could also be him / her, as you would like it to be physically, but above all in character. It is not excluded that it is an unconscious way to defend oneself from feelings of guilt, to free oneself from inhibitory brakes, which according to Freudian psychology are moral laws implanted in our subconscious, that is, the emotional mind of everyone; or a way of realizing repressed desires and encrypted sexual instincts that in reality one is not able to accept, but are freely revealed in the dream. Everyone or almost everyone dreams of cheating, but this does not mean that they really want it or that they do not feel love for their partner. So it is not the case to feel guilty when waking up if in a dream you betray your man or woman with a kiss, sexual intercourse or even just with thought.
If, for example, when you are engaged, you dream of cheating before marriage, it can be a sign of the fear of forever bonding with another person, who still does not know each other well, risking being clipped their wings and losing their freedom for one day. to the other; or even the fear of not being able to face a very different reality from the one you live in. If, on the other hand, you dream of being betrayed, it is possible that you are afraid of not being up to par in some situations, of having little Self-esteem or problems in communicating to one's partner the insecurities inherent in one's soul. These dreams often bring anguish and disorientation, but feeling guilty would be absurd in any case. Dreams are not made consciously. And often they have a very distant meaning. from what appears at the moment and the dreams of betrayal often do not directly involve either the sexual or the sentimental sphere. The fact is rather complex. entity and in a little more in-depth way.
In any case, not all evils come to harm and sometimes the betrayal (even real) is followed by a new beginning!
Let's analyze this problem: unmotivated fear, real motivations or premonitions?
Often you dream of cheating precisely because you want your love partner to have more than the same body the same personality as the one with whom you betray him. It can mean this even if in the dream you imagine yourself to be his lover and to betray him with another him / her. In fact, betraying, dreaming, can indicate a strong feeling of love, for the person with whom you live a happy relationship and to whom you are linked by strong feelings, even if it does not always meet your expectations in everyday life, especially as regards inner strength, weak sides of character or shy passion.
You can also dream of betraying or being betrayed not only by your partner, but also by other people for whom you feel another type of love, relatives, close friends, colleagues, but often it is neither a desire nor a real fear. . We should therefore try to understand what it is that attracts and pushes to dream betrayal, to better identify the origin. You can also make love in a dream with a person of your own sex, even if you are not homosexual, sometimes due to emotional shortcomings in the family of origin and insecurities, perhaps due to a difficult and sometimes painful childhood. On this point, too, we can ask ourselves questions that are difficult to answer. If then dreaming of cheating happens rather frequently, it could indicate a true sexual dissatisfaction, not confessed in real life even to oneself, which then explodes, freeing itself, in the dream; or a family situation that creates anxiety and anguish and then the dreamed betrayal can acquire the meaning of a liberation, of a pleasure that repays the suffering experienced.
The word to the experts, not the cabal.
Experts tell us that dreams are certainly not premonitory of something that has happened or is yet to happen but are transference in the dream moment of unresolved inner conflicts. Dreams of betrayal could also reveal to an expert some deep fear that you do not know you have or instead be a strong signal of distrust in yourself or in your partner.If a pregnant woman, especially if she is not cohabiting or married, dreams of being betrayed, it is often an indication of a real distrust in her partner, even if the reality can also be different from her doubts and her upset could be due only to a moment of greatest fragility.
If, on the other hand, dreaming of being betrayed does not disturb too much, maybe there is some problem, perhaps even some repressed sense of guilt for your real distance from your partner, with whom you should try to reactivate communication, to avoid falling into silence and in total indifference, which is worse than any dream or real betrayal.
First of all, it is necessary to understand what kind of attraction you feel towards the person with whom you are betraying yourself in a dream, to better identify the causes of the event.
In this case it might be useful to ask a trusted doctor / doctor, obviously a specialist in the psychological interpretation of dreams, for help in deciphering the most encrypted meanings, thanks to which you can regain greater dreamlike serenity in real life. It is then necessary to analyze whether in betraying one feels a sense of guilt or not, as the interpretation could be different. In the first case one can feel guilty for other kinds of shortcomings, which dreamily take on the characteristics of amorous betrayal; if, on the other hand, one remains indifferent to betraying or being betrayed in a dream, it may mean that you need a breath of fresh air, an escape from the golden prison in which one unknowingly feels locked up. Dreaming that others betray their partners, especially if they are couples close to you, can mean that you identify with that situation, as you are experiencing a moment of crisis in the couple relationship, even if you do not have the courage to admit it. . In any case, it is always an alarm bell, which when awake one pretends not to hear, but which in sleep reveals that there is something to fix.
You don't always feel physical attraction towards the person with whom you dream of cheating: it could also be any type / girl for whom you feel only indifference.
In fact, the most frequent dreams of betrayal concern loved ones, relatives, dear friends, and not so much our adversaries or strangers. A platonic betrayal usually indicates a greater desire to be heard and to talk to your loved one. We therefore invent an interlocutor willing to give understanding and attention, as a real partner should do. Dreaming of cheating sexually can mean instead wanting to live a more passionate love life and the physical desire, held back in real life by the shyness of the other or by the lack of complicity, allows all the libido sacrificed on a dream level to be expressed. Dreaming of being discovered, while betraying yourself, if you are a sensitive person, can indicate a latent sense of guilt for minimal omissions, which you would like to get rid of, even if you are restrained by the fear of ruining the relationship and making the other suffer. . To conclude, I tell you that you read: If by chance you happen to cheat on your official partner or your lover in a dream, talk to an expert and don't play the lotto.
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