5 books that you absolutely must read if you have experienced a betrayal and that will help you overcome it
1. To try to heal
Gina Kästele, And I erase your name (Tea)
After such a great disappointment of love, the first thing to do is to react and leave the pain behind. The tips and exercises proposed by the psychologist Gina Kästele will help you find the strength to face a new beginning and go back to looking to the future.
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Découpage: everything you need to know2. Not to be fooled anymore
Koidl, Prince Charming is a bastard (Piemme editions)
Not all men lie, but bastards do. How can we recognize them and never let ourselves be duped before we find ourselves with a broken heart? Koidl's manual not only reveals the tricks most used by false blue princes, but also teaches us how to set the record straight at the beginning of a story.
3. To understand his point of view
Diane Brasseur, The faithfulness (Sonzogno)
A man locks himself up in his study intending not to leave it again until he has made his decision: lover or wife. He can no longer live with the sense of guilt. What will he choose to do? Because sometimes listening to his point of view can also be helpful.
4. To be able to forgive
Massimo Recalcati, It is no longer the same. In praise of forgiveness in love life (Raffaello Cortina Editore)
What if he confesses and comes back to us begging for forgiveness? If, listening to his reasons, we realize that, after all, we too had a part of the blame? It is not enough to justify his betrayal, it is clear, but sometimes even adultery can be overcome if you have the strength and the patience to forgive.
5. For those who demand revenge
Olivia Glodsmith, The Ex-Wives Club (Sperling & Kupfer)
A classic for every betrayed woman who does not intend to let the cheater get away with it. Three ex-wives, after being abandoned by their husbands, decide to found a club with the aim of elaborating refined and imaginative vendettas. Beware of traitors, better not to play with fire.
(And after reading, we also recommend watching the very successful film, of which we report the poster below)