The G-spot: myth or reality?
Taking into account its possible existence, here's what we know (or think we know) about what could be, together with the clitoris, one of the most erogenous zones in women.
Before proceeding with the reading, do not forget that we can also feel pleasure on our own. This video will reveal the secrets of autoeroticism.
Intense pleasure
The vaginal walls are crossed by many nerve endings. If it is true that the G-spot is an area in which the nerves are particularly sensitive, it is clear to imagine why it is an "area that can provide intense pleasure, much longer and more voluptuous than the clitoral or vaginal one.
Where is it?
The G-spot could be located on the front wall of the vagina, behind the pubic bone. Ideally it should be halfway between the entrance and the back of the vagina, which is 4 cm from the entrance. To guide your partner towards pleasure, it is important to locate this erogenous zone with confidence. To get there, insert a finger slightly curved towards the belly into the vagina. After about 4 cm you will feel that the skin is less smooth, or even wrinkled. By rubbing this point for a while, you will feel a urge similar to that of pee, and the skin will begin to swell and harden due to the flow of blood. Depending on the women, this stimulation can be pleasant immediately or become so over time.
Stimulate the G-spot
The G-spot becomes more sensitive if the clitoris is also stimulated first (according to an Australian researcher, the g-spot is nothing more than the end of the clitoris itself).
Guide your partner's finger to the G-spot and tell him to perform circular movements you hate come and go.
- If you are using a sex toy, opt for one specially made for this type of stimulation
- There are particularly favorable positions to reach orgasm thanks to the G-spot, such as doggie-style, which allows the man to easily reach the anterior wall of the vagina. The rider position could also help, especially by bowing the back back.
- And finally, the classic missionary position, in the variant "legs on the partner's shoulders" guarantees an "excellent stimulation of the G-spot.
It requires patience!
Since the sensitivity of the G-spot varies between women, it may take some patience before learning the position and figuring out the ideal way to stimulate it. Many women, although they find it, tend to stop stimulation before they orgasm. for the similarities that this has with the urge to pee and the fear that it is a urge to urinate. Don't be discouraged and keep trying. And if you feel uncomfortable with your partner, try it yourself, this way you can then guide your partner with greater safety.
Curiosity: many women, thanks to the stimulation of the G-spot, are able to reach an orgasm so intense that it makes them ejaculate.