He is lying? Here are 10 ways to figure it out!
Tired of being made fun of and always noticing it too late? From today no one will be able to get it under your nose!
Whether a person lies to you to convince you of something, to sell you a product, or to cover up a misdeed, and whatever kind of relationship you have, it's pretty easy to recognize the attitudes of a liar once they are studied.
If you suspect something, talk to the alleged liar and see how he reacts. If you answer the accusation in any of these 10 ways, start worrying ...
And if you find out that she cheated on you, take a cue from her!
1. Be amazed
If he reacts to your question / accusation by remaining silent and motionless for a few seconds, there may be something wrong ...
In short, your question will not be so difficult that you have to think so long before answering! The truth is that he has realized that he has been caught and is not sure how to behave ...
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2. He takes offense and attacks you
An "other typical reaction of someone who is caught in the wrong (or almost) is to attack the one who is accusing him. Unless he has a good reason to be disappointed, it is a way to cover up his crime ...
If as soon as you start talking to him he covers you with insults and pisses you off, don't give in. Let the water calm down and then ... back to the attack!
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3. Try to change the subject
This is a classic of the most blatant liars: almost pretend not to have heard the question and turn the conversation to something more urgent or more "important". I recommend, do not get confused and do not lose the compass!
4. He looks as shocked as you are
If once he hears the news, he is overly surprised at what happened and continues to show this emotion for a long time, it is likely that he is trying to convince you (and convince himself) that he really feels it.
The duration of a sincere emotion usually does not exceed 10 seconds, so: either he is really upset or he wants you to believe that he is.
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5. He shows understanding
If he shifts the conversation to himself and an experience of his that is very similar to yours, it is more likely that he is lying than that he is particularly empathetic and that he is trying to be sympathetic to you.
6. Answers with other questions
If, instead of answering, he asks you more questions about the problem and tries to make you believe he wants to know more, know that 90% have no intention of answering what you asked and telling the truth.
7. Try to direct your suspicions to others
If he starts the conversation by asking you the same question he should have answered, there is already something to worry about. It may mean that he is trying to make you think further about what happened, shifting your attention to other possible culprits. to be influenced; as you have seen in a thousand films, it is often just a ploy to get away with it!
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8. He exaggerates in declaring his innocence
If he immediately got off the ground in declaring himself innocent or if he keeps repeating that he doesn't know what you are talking about and that it has nothing to do with the problem, you should be alarmed. If he overreacts this way, it is highly likely that he has something to hide.
9. Throw it on the joke
If your interlocutor tries in every way to be nice, it is very likely that he is trying to lighten the tone of the conversation and that, therefore, he is making fun of you. Answer in kind and stay firm on your position; you will see how the desire to laugh and be funny will pass!
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10. Answers your questions vaguely
If a person goes too far in answering, they probably don't want to get to the heart of the matter. The most sincere answer you can get is a "yes" or a "no." If not, your suspicions are likely. have a grain of truth ...
Have you recognized at least 5 attitudes? You are definitely facing a liar!
Bonus: body language
Another clue not to be underestimated is body language. This can help you understand a lot of things, such as if he is in love or if he is shamelessly lying to you!
What signs do you have to pay attention to?
- Swallows or coughs often. It is a symptom of concern.
- He makes continuous faces and the features of his face are not symmetrical. When we are calm, we don't constantly change expression.
- Keep looking left and right, avoiding your gaze. Unless he's a shy person, he's lying.
- Look up to the right. It means he's using fantasy.
- He touches his face or neck. It means that he feels guilty and that he is trying to hide from you.
- Scratches his nose or ears. Classic nervous tic of the liar.
- Look down shaking your head. He is desperate.
- Put your fingers in your mouth. He wants to take off the burden of guilt, if you insist he will give in.
P.s. and if you were the crafty one? Well, these are the ways your he could catch you!
If you haven't made it too big, try making peace with an original message ...
