How to kiss: tips and techniques for kissing well
Kissing is a natural gesture but the first few times it is normal to be assailed by doubts and small fears. The theory is important but nothing can replace practice: to become a good kisser you need to practice a little and let yourself go without brakes and without fear. Kissing is instinctive: the rules to learn are few what matters then it is to follow your instinct and try to be as spontaneous as possible. Kissing is pleasant and is also good for your health!
The kiss in contemporary society
Kissing is a gesture of affection or a signal that there is an erotic tension between two people. The kiss takes on different meanings depending on the society. If on the one hand, for example, the tribes of the Amazon do not like kissing on the lips, on the contrary they consider it a truly disgusting gesture, in some cultures it is forbidden to kiss in public, on the other it is a gesture full of emotional meanings. A study conducted by the Universities of Indiana and Nevada showed that kissing has a deep connection with the cultural landscape, and is considered a more erotic gesture in more advanced societies.
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The first kiss
The first kiss always causes a little agitation: we ask ourselves many questions that in the end only practice can give a real answer. There are certainly good first kiss tips to follow to turn this experience into a moment to remember for a lifetime. It is good to remember, however, that neither for a man nor for a woman there are precise rules: it is a purely instinctive fact and the first thing is always to let yourself go. However, it is normal to wonder how to kiss and especially how to kiss well. Since emotions are at the center of every kiss, remember that you are not alone, you kiss in two. Everyone therefore has his own technique but only by letting himself be guided by pleasure, and kissing with passion and transport, you can communicate to the partner the pleasure you feel and the emotions you are experiencing.
By continuing to read you will discover all the secrets of a perfect kiss but first let yourself be inspired by the most beautiful kisses in the cinema!
How to kiss: tips for new kissers
Here are some tips for novice girls and boys. When you lean towards your partner tilt your head to one side, your partner will do the same in the opposite direction. Get close to his lips, at this point close your eyes: this will help you relax and be as spontaneous as possible. And then it's not nice to meet your love's gaze during a first kiss, it could be a bit disturbing and spoil the atmosphere! When the lips are close, start kissing each other with your mouth closed, then slowly open up and start exploring your partner's mouth with your tongue, trying to find a rhythm and intensity that you both like.
How to kiss well: become great kissers
The first tip to kiss well is to let yourself go and try to move your mouth and tongue in a natural and gradual way without forcing. There is no foolproof technique and above all a correct way to kiss a person, because obviously it's all a matter of taste. But knowing how to kiss also means this, moving in an exploratory and gradual way in search of perfect harmony with the partner. A great kisser always starts kissing lightly, it is delicate and does not impose a rhythm or a type of movement. Kiss very carefully, slowly, without forgetting the area around the mouth. Alternate the rhythm and intensity, mix lightly whispered kisses with small clamps, nibble, use your tongue moving with confidence and let your partner do the same. If it works, you understand on the fly: it's all a matter of chemistry!
Different types of kisses
There is no one way to kiss because different kisses express different emotions and feelings. They range from the classic and friendly kiss on the cheek, one of the most tender together with the kiss on the nose to kisses typical of real couples, of varying degrees of intensity: from the molded one to the French kiss with the tongue, to the butterfly kiss, to sandwich to end with the kiss of love, the most classic of foreplay capable of unleashing the passion between the two partners.
The kiss in the Kamasutra
In the Kamasutra there are 4 different types of kisses, the symbolic one in which the lips brush without pressing: it is a very sensual kiss, where the seduction comes from the touch and the sensations that can be evoked, the one with lifting in which the partner's chin to exert pressure and fascinating control over the other. Another type of kiss according to the Kamasutra is the strongly pressed kiss with a high degree of eroticism that mixes pressure and small games with the lips that are bitten and sucked. The last kiss told in the kamasutra is then the captivating kiss, a kiss capable of involving the two protagonists, bringing them to the maximum of excitement. It is a very pleasant kiss: pleasure arises precisely from the slow movement and from prolonging the kiss over time to increase the level of oxytocin, the love hormone and at the same time lower the stress hormone.
