FRIENDS AT 30, FRIENDS AT 20: MORE FOR THAN AGAINST - LIFESTYLE

Friends at 30, friends at 20: more pros than cons

Growing up what an effort! Of course, but growing up involves a long series of pros, who are often pushed aside to regret the good old days! In "friendship for example, there are a number of things that work much better. And this is because you grow up, are more mature, aware and finally independent (emotionally speaking). Of course there are pros and cons in everything, but sometimes it would be it is better to choose to see the glass half full because perhaps it is true: growing up is not so bad, and adolescence is a great chaos! At 30, you have almost all chosen your friends, the selection comes from years of separations, bad things received and done, clarifications on morbid relationships, borders and never having sex with each other's ex. Because real friends ...

1. Go out just to be together

Going out with friends at 30 is no longer an absolute need to be satisfied. More than anything else, it is the choice to spend a personal moment: without boyfriend, partner, husband and possible child, any parents, employer or colleagues. The 30-year-old friends are the moment all to oneself, a moment which, on the other hand, at 20, there is less need, for which friends are almost daily entertainment. It happens that it is okay to go out in the evening rather than late at night, avoid the wee hours, better chat than go dancing, and if flirting with the bartender is passable, it is better to avoid the hangover the next day.

2. Stop being in symbiosis

If you put the skirt on me too, only if you put on the heels I put them on too, if you don't go out with us I don't go out, good morning and good night, the first to like all social networks, TV series together or nothing, playlists for the "self made together, we pee rigorously together. The adolescent symbiosis. It ends that the good morning and good night are destined to our partner, the heels better to replace them with running shoes, less posts less like, and so on: to each his own life, but Luckily, how nice is it to have to take care only of yourself and then be able to allow yourself a comparison based on the choices you have made independently without the support and continuous approval of your BFF? Then you talk with her about flirting in the gym, about anti-aging creams, about how chemistry has been lacking in your relationship, about cellulite and everything that from 6 to 100 years old you can only and always say only to her.

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3. Allow yourself to be in your twenties

At 30 you can: a 90's evening is enough and it's 20. As soon as the Spice piece starts, you are with your Vodka Lemon, ready to lemon-are with the first one that happens, and to call your friend to help with your eyes. , if someone stresses you on the track. The beauty of 30 is that at 20 you can go back in an instant. But then, fortunately, we go back to 30. Less need to prove something to the world, more self-awareness, and the happiness of wearing pajamas.

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4. Accept compromises

At 30 he is never all white or all black, we can be fragile, we can turn a blind eye, we can accept and accept ourselves as we are. Having someone next to you is a choice, it has hit rock bottom together, maybe quarrels and misunderstandings have passed under the bridge, yet you are still there for each other. And you feel lucky to have been chosen and to have chosen, without judging too much, just for who you are. The compromise is there: in "accepting, loving, admiring differences more than equality without ever ceasing to really love each other, as it was at 20, if not more.

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