Spanking: the sexual tendency that involves physical punishment during intercourse
Spanking is a sexual tendency that is based on the double dominant and submissive role. It involves a series of physical punishments with which the dominant exercises his dominion over the submissive. If the idea fascinates you, you can also experiment with spanking within your couple. If you prefer something else or want to experience different emotions, watch the video in which we reveal many secrets to improve sex with your partner!
Sex and imagination: all the secrets of spanking to spice up sexual intercourse
It is well known that imagination is an important ingredient of any sexual encounter, and that it manages to exceed desire and arousal. After all, sexuality is a world in which to experiment and discover to find those elements that can entertain and involve the two elements of the couple. Sexuality is full of nuances: many things are liked, others are horrifying or simply make us smile. This happens because sexuality cannot be explained, there is no right or wrong in bed. The only aspect that guides our sexual choices is what we like. In short, if it makes us feel good it is the right thing. What is certain is that talking about sex never bores us, it is always a fruitful discussion full of comparisons and always able to offer new points of view. With this spirit today we talk about spanking, an exotic name that defines a frequent practice and is appreciated even by not so young people. In the English dictionary you can find the verb to spank, from which the word comes spanking: it really means spanking, giving spanking with your hands or other instrument. And here everything is clear: spanking is to feel pleasure in giving or taking a sound spanking, big or small, delicate or more impetuous, capable in any case of to warm the atmosphere and give a new twist to couple or even occasional sex, why not?
In sexuality, speaking is important. It allows us to understand what we like and what we don't and above all to reveal it to the partner who in turn can reveal tastes, desires and small fantasies. Talking about sex, what you like and what you want, then immediately turns on the desire. It is in this context that spanking must be placed: spanking is a transgressive moment, a small variation from the already known and already seen theme. But does spanking really cause pleasure? The spanking of spanking can be of different intensity, weak or intense. Whether or not it causes pleasure obviously depends on the predisposition and tastes of those who do it and those who receive it, and also on the context. Are you ready?
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Spanking: the sexual practice that is talked about so much in the forums
For a long time a sexual practice such as spanking, which included in any case a physical "violence" even if small, was considered in the psychiatric and medical fields a sort of pathology, which required psychiatric treatments. Modern psychology, on the other hand, defines spanking as a sexual game. Spanking does not have a long tradition: this practice is relatively new and only frequently has it established itself as a recognized sex play between the sheets, which is freely spoken of in a discussion about sex. A game of roles is created in the couple. The dominant procures a physical punishment that the submissive undergoes: both feel pleasure from this practice, undergoing or giving the spanking can be equally pleasant for the dominant and for the subject. In spanking, spanking is always given on the buttocks, but not only are used to give them. The dominant uses different tools, from the timeless classic, the wooden spoon, to the leather belt to also get to real advanced tools such as whips of every shape and material. It is clear that spanking falls under the law among the practices of BDSM (Bondage Domination Submission Masochism).
The positions of spanking and the tools of pleasure
In the classic spanking role play, whoever dominates, called spanker, is seated. He is the flogger and it is up to him to physically punish the flogged. The latter, the flogged, is usually stretched out with his stomach on the flogger's knees and shows him his buttocks. This is the classic position also in the common imagination: that of children who were punished with spanking by mothers or fathers.
Other positions include those who receive the spanking leaning at 90 ° on a chair or a backrest, or the submissive person is straight and bent, being spanked while touching his ankles with his hands. Position is also important and influences enjoyment. The position is also chosen on the basis of the context and the game of roles, if we want to emphasize the humiliation, the punishment, the physical suffering that leads to pleasure and enjoyment.
Here are the most typical tools of this practice. The stick is a widely used tool in spanking, as a source of discipline. Inlaid or worked sticks are usually used. There are also those who love the belt, a belt usually in leather or other material and finally the whip, the tool designed for livestock that is reinterpreted and used between the sheets with the aim of hitting the partner causing a small pain capable of unleash the excitement! In Italian there is no term to understand the sexual game of spanking, we can speak of spanking but it does not always convey the idea of sexual tension and the punitive aspect that is triggered in the couple.
Spanking and Kamasutra
Spanking, the erotic spanking, is the gesture of spanking someone to provoke a "sexual arousal in both components of the game. The arousal can also be unique, with one partner getting aroused and the other adapting and playing the game while not feeling real. pleasure. As we have said, spanking belongs to BSDM practices and is connected to sadomasochism. Spanking is one of the most common sexual foreplay such as the different tendencies of bondage, oral sex and that mix of caresses and rubbing that has the task of increase the excitement and lead to penetration and sexual intercourse that culminates in orgasm. Spanking enthusiasts use increasingly advanced tools. There are real advanced forms of spanking such as switching, paddling, belting, birching ...a whole series of names that vary according to the instrument used to strike the partner's buttocks. There are also references to spanking in the Kamasutra: here we talk a lot about how a little pain can be aphrodisiac and represent a very strong excitement for a partner as long as you know how to dose enjoyment and pain during sexual intercourse.
Where sex ends and violence begins: all necessary distinctions
When there is consent, pleasure and enjoyment or even just curiosity to experiment with new sexual practices, it is good to experience sex in every nuance. Feel free to experiment with spanking or any other sexual fantasy you imagine you might like. Obviously, as in all things, no one can force you to do things that are not right for you. You are free to stop at any time: letting yourself be carried away by the role play and the positive responses of your partner can seem very exciting and tantalizing but even if you don't like it at all, that's fine too. The beauty of sexuality is that if you feel like it you can do whatever you want, as you please and with whoever you want: this is the only rule to always follow.
