What men don't dare say in bed: 20 hidden things
While we don't know everything about men's pleasures, there are some things we know to be very fond of, but they don't dare confess us. We have an idea and we will reveal to you in general what men do not dare to say in bed, but are dying to do. Keep in mind that one thing: innovation and imagination always win ... here is a video with some secrets for better sex to put into practice right away!
1 - Let the preliminaries be prolonged
No, foreplay isn't just for female pleasure! Men also like to prolong the pleasure, feel the desire grow in them and explore their sexuality in a different way.
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2 - To let ourselves be dominated by us
Without totally submitting to you, your man likes to feel that he is the dominant male and that he is conquering you. Let it take over (just in bed!) And let me tie you up with a gag and handcuffs if you feel like it ...
3 - To be tender and effective
Caressing him and giving him proof of love is not an attention to be neglected. Even if the man does not necessarily want to recognize him, he likes to be given affection. Kiss and cuddle him!
4 - To take your time
It is wrong to think that men are in a hurry to go to bed. They too like to take their time and let desire gradually invade them. Be languid and take your time!
5. To take control of us
After a long day at the office, sometimes your lover just needs you to tell him what to do. Instead of always making decisions, take him to the bedroom. Without having to turn into a dominatrix, show them what you can do ...
6. To caress it, discovering erogenous zones
Consider other areas of the body! All men love to have their testicles caressed, but the buttocks, back and neck are also other very erogenous areas. Since every man is different, it's up to you to explore to find the sensitive areas.
7. To use the mouth in different areas
Fellatio pretty much tops the list when it comes to male sexual pleasure. Be inventive! Varying the movements and even the zones will take him to seventh heaven!
8. Tell him about your fantasies
Men like to please you and see you "come". Don't just answer all his requests with a simple yes. Talk to him about your fantasies and tell him what you like (or don't like). It will be a real pleasure for him to fulfill your wishes!
9. To explore the anal area
Warn your man before taking action, as this is a "taboo" area. The area near the anus is very sensitive. During fellatio or masturbation, keep your hands in place. This area generates several chills that can be very exciting when you approach the prostate gland, an extremely erogenous area.
10. To masturbate
Visual stimulation excites men. Seeing your partner masturbating with no inhibitions is a beautiful sight. If you really want to drive him crazy, don't let him touch you during this moment. This also allows you to show him what really turns you on.
11 - To whisper our craziest ideas to him
Without telling him everything that happens, whisper words in his ear that are more raw than usual. Be mean, but still be natural. Tell him what you like and share what you want.
12 - To be a little rough
Your man doesn't always want sweet, romantic sex. He likes it when he is stronger, more animal and rough. He also likes rough sex, weird sex, no euphemisms!
13 - To be surprised
Destabilize it! Break the routine and be inventive. Without complicating things too much, it is possible to be original and seductive.
14 - To bring out our 18+ toys
Whether it's a vibrator, massage oils, or sex toys, erotic objects spice up the relationship. These toys change habits a bit and renew the enthusiasm for his partner.
15. To vary the location
Don't let yourself be conquered by the routine (see point 13)! Surprise your man by starting to have sex in every room of the house and why not, even outside!
16. Watching porn with him
To make you want, and also as a source of inspiration, watching porn videos with your partner has many advantages. It often helps spice up your sex life and share your fantasies.
17. To watch each other in action
Men have a very visual reaction to desire, especially in bed. A mirror strategically placed near the bed (or wherever you are) will allow him to see himself in action, a great "thrill" for the man.
18. To watch a show created by you
Make up a naked dancer or a stripper! No matter what your little complexes are, it doesn't matter to your man. A private dance given by the woman he loves will come true!
19 - To make us feel
When under the sheets, moans, deep breaths and cries of pleasure are welcome. There is nothing more motivating for a man than to see that he gives you (a lot) of pleasure.
20 - To stimulate his self-esteem
Men also have trust issues. Let him know that he is attractive and that you find him beautiful. After all, if he's complimenting you, you need to return the favor.
