Your best friend's new girlfriend: how to handle it if ...
He has been your best friend for at least 20 years and you really love him, but something is about to change: he introduces you to his new girlfriend.
How not to look like the protagonists of A woman as a friend of Battisti? After sharing with him the joy of having found true love, here are the doubts. The beauty of friendship is precisely that comforting idea that boyfriends pass on, but friends stay. But when the new girlfriend arrives, you have to adapt to new dynamics, which often frighten and make the third person feel too much, to the point of giving birth to Here is a mini guide on how to behave with his girlfriend and in the meantime, while looking at her from head to toe, remember that she is good for him for these reasons:
How to manage it if you feel left out
Maybe he only has eyes for her, he dedicates his "goodnight" to her and she becomes the top priority ...
Before starting in the fourth with speeches, digs and sorrows it is important, in this first phase, to look at what happens and how the story evolves. A new relationship always changes the balance. If you are willing to accept the natural change of life, you can understand that no one is excluding the other. He, by giving space to something new, is building his own life of his own. You can be part of it anyway. availability and desire to be together, without however harassing the other by putting him in difficulty in his new relationship, without fomenting feelings of guilt and being intrusive and without frightening the new Mrs.
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How to handle her if we don't like her
If our BFF gets engaged, he will inevitably be taken by a woman who - as much as we - will want to be special and unique to him. Probably at first you and she will smell each other. Be careful not to make her enemies, to respect their bond and to accept that the relationship will necessarily be managed differently with him. If you don't like her because of the space she occupies, you can talk to him about the changes that his new bond has brought, always in a positive and constructive way. If you don't really like her, our advice is to discover the sides that unite her to him. He must have something that you may like , the important thing is to seek an authentic and direct relationship of knowledge with her. The more you avoid filtering it through him, the easier it will be to establish a sincere and transparent bond so that it is easier to build a relationship based on mutual respect and trust.
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How to deal with it if jealousy sets in
Can you feel abandoned and neglected to the point of becoming jealous? Yes. You are terrified by the thought that you will no longer be able to take care of your best friend, that you will no longer be his confidant and his shoulder to cry on. What to do? Calm down if you don't want to lose your best friend. The more change is accepted, the greater the possibility of maintaining a balance. No bond can always be identical to itself. Yours will simply have to find new forms of contact, less exclusive but still rewarding and important.
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