5 signs say no, you just can't be alone
Fear is one of the worst things we can encounter and leads us to make seemingly incomprehensible choices.
It leads us to talk less than we should and, at times, leads us to go out with people we know are wrong for us but who, in one way or another, we would like to give us stability.
If you are a serial hunter, and not just because you are looking for stunts in the sheets, maybe the problem lies at the root! Or maybe it is an innate desire to have a partner always at your side!
1. You don't remember the last time you were single
"Ok, first there was Claudio, then while I was with him I met Mattia, Mattia" I left him for Daniele ... "
If you don't remember the last time when you didn't have anyone next to you, maybe you should take a break. Before you feel good with someone you have to learn to feel good about yourself otherwise after Claudio, Mattia and Daniele you risk to collect other relationships without happy ending...
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And, in this case, "what you find" could be that kindergarten friend of yours that you haven't seen since 2007 but you are single, he too and therefore you have decided to give it a try, it doesn't matter if you know very well that he is a totally untrustworthy person. . Love manifests itself in dozens of different ways, from love at first sight to falling in love step by step, but it's a bit like shooting stars. You don't have to worry: it will come.
3. You forget who you are
When you are never alone you begin to forget who you are when you are alone. Your boundaries are lost in those of the other and you find yourself watching medieval fencing even if he is not there, although it is clear that you never liked medieval fencing. You don't put on heels anymore because otherwise you are taller than him and you only see your friends when you know that your better half has the soccer game.
The couple is made up of two people, but you are not there!
4. You settle for suffocating relationships
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It is clear that he is not the right one, why get stuck?
You know that if you were to leave it would result in crying and gnashing of teeth and you know you should start looking again but you have no intention of it so you agree to be with someone who takes your breath away. Ok that the moments that take your breath away are often the best, but if he suffocates you with his presence you really risk going crazy.
5. Don't close the doors
Do you have a bevy of ex-friends that you keep ready in case your next relationship turns out to be a failure?
Our exes know us and may even be great friends, but there's no need to use them as a mattress: if you learn to be enough, everything that will happen to you will be one more. Because the only infinite relationship is the one you establish with yourself and that must always be celebrated