Lesbian sex: this is how it works!
Movies, videos, newspapers - we are all familiar with heterosexual sex scenes. For some years now, homosexual love between men has also been shown, or at least hinted at, and then we can imagine the rest. But finding lesbian sex scenes in films for the general public is almost impossible.
Lesbian sex is still taboo and the road to the acceptance of love between two women is still long. So how do lesbians have sex and why do lesbian relationships arouse so much curiosity? Let's shed some light on this and dispel some clichés ...
The different types of sexual practices between women
- Touch - Caresses play an important role in sexual relations between women, perhaps even more so than they do for heterosexual couples. Hands participate enormously in their sex life: Mutual masturbation, tenderness: lesbians have a reputation for being sweet and tender women ... This is not always true, but in any case, since there is no phantom of penetration, you can pamper the best the body of the other, and caress it far and wide.
You can also take advantage of some small erotic "objects" that you have at home and which you do not think can be a full-fledged sex toy. Here is a video that helps you to discover a little "...
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- The chafing - A little history. In ancient Greece, lesbianism was called tribadism, from the Greek trìbein, which means "to rub". This word is no longer used today. However, in some languages, such as English or German, this term now designates a lesbian sexual practice: the act performed by two women who rub their genitals against each other.
- The mouth - Lots of kisses. The pleasure caused by kissing is very important during sexual intercourse between lesbians. Kissing, cunnilingus, anilingus - these practices are common to heterosexual and lesbian couples.
- Penetration - Contrary to popular belief, the use of penetration also exists for lesbian couples. Anal or vaginal, the penetration can be done with the fingers, the hand, the tongue or with sexual objects such as sex toys (discover them on Amazon), dildos .. we also talk about fist-fucking, a practice that consists in introducing the hand or fist into the partner's vagina. This is a dangerous practice, which can cause damage to the mucous membranes, irritation or infection, severe bruising and even sterility.
Sex between lesbians: commonplaces
- Among women, you know immediately what the other wants.
FALSE: As with heterosexual couples, it takes time to get to know and really know what they prefer.
- In lesbian couples there is always one who is a man
FALSE: this is also a gender stereotype. Sure, there are women who like to dominate, but that goes for any individual and it's a question of character. In lesbian couples, and therefore also in bed, there is not necessarily one of the two that makes a man.
- All lesbians use dildos
FALSE: also in this case it is a question of preferences, but also of occasions, of desires. There is no rule: lesbian sex is not necessarily related to penetration, and this leaves the field open to other ways of having sex and experiencing pleasure.
- Among lesbians it is easier to recognize when a woman is faking orgasm
FALSE: and why should it be easier?
Beware of sexually transmitted diseases!
Even if there is no penetration, lesbians are at least as exposed to the contagion of sexually transmitted diseases as heterosexual couples. On the other hand, gynecological checks are essential even if contraception is not necessary in relationships between women. Gynecological visits allow to avoid, diagnose and cure any diseases. In fact, on average, one in 5 women (who have never had sex with a man) would be infected with the papillomavirus. It is therefore important to protect yourself and prevent these sexual diseases even in the case of female homosexuality.
How to protect yourself?
It is recommended to protect yourself with latex squares. They can be created by simply cutting a male condom or latex glove. Be careful to check the EC approval. This protection must cover the lips and vulva during the act. This protection must be changed when moving from one part of the body to another. In case of anal or vaginal penetration with sexual objects, the use of a female condom (found on Amazon) or a male condom is essential. For hand penetrations, use latex gloves. In both cases, always think about using a little water-based lubricant to avoid pain, irritation and other ailments.
See also: Lesbian Kamasutra. The 100 positions for female love
Even if you are heterosexual, you may have slightly different results with this test!
