Anorgasmia
When orgasm doesn't trigger
Anorgasmia it means "absence of orgasm": from the normal arousal phase, in which she feels pleasure, the woman is unable to pass to the orgasmic phase since orgasm is triggered neither by penetration nor by stimulation of the clitoris. In the anorgasmic woman, sexual desire does not reach its peak.
Not to be confused with frigidity
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This disorder is not to be confused with frigidity (absence of pleasure) which, on the other hand, can be a consequence of anorgasmia. A woman who cannot reach orgasm, in fact, runs the risk of becoming discouraged until she becomes frigid and no longer feels any pleasure, which will inevitably also lead to the loss of desire. A frigid woman suffers from anorgasmia, while an anorgasmic woman continues to feel pleasure.
According to statistics, nearly 10% of women suffer from anorgasmia or frigidity and one in three women will face this problem in their lifetime.
Two types of anorgasmia
We distinguish two types of anorgasmia:
- anorgasmia primary, if the woman has never reached orgasm, either through penetration or through stimulation of the clitoris
- anorgasmia secondary, if the woman has already had an orgasm in the course of her sex life.
There is also talk of anorgasmia total if the woman has neither vaginal nor clitoral orgasms, and anorgasmia partial if the woman only reaches one of the two orgasms.
The causes
The causes of anorgasmia are many and can be physical, psychological or behavioral:
- an education that has repressed sexuality and eroticism
-lack of self-esteem, distorted view of one's body
- awkwardness or brutality of the partner
-sex routine
pain during sexual intercourse (dyspareunia, vaginismus ...)
- a traumatic episode during childhood (sexual abuse, violence ...)
- absence of desire for one's partner
Doubts about your feelings for your partner
-fear of letting go and indulging in pleasure
The solutions
Fortunately, the solutions to find the path that leads to orgasm exist!
If the cause of the problem is physical you will need to consult your doctor or your gynecologist, who will be able to give you the appropriate advice to deal with your ailment. If, on the other hand, everything depends on a psychic issue, it will be better to contact a psychotherapist or a sexologist who will offer you a personalized therapy in order to let you discover (or rediscover) the eroticism of your body and finally reach the supreme pleasure.
