Cunnilingus: what oral sex is and how it works for her
What is cunnilingus?
We can consider cunnilingus as the female equivalent of fellatio. The term comes from the Latin words "cunnus", vulva, and "lingere", to lick.
It is therefore a practice of oral sex which consists of stimulating the vulva, the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina with the tongue, lips and mouth in general. This caress causes sensations of intense pleasure, which can lead to female orgasm, just like these positions ...
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Cunnilingus: how it works
Manual caresses often act as a preliminary to cunnilingus, to increase arousal. After that, the man puts his mouth close to sex and moves on to kisses.
Kiss, touch, nibble, suck, lick ... anything is possible! A light suck is just as effective. Don't hesitate to suggest new gestures to your partner, it's the best way to let him know what you like.
It is possible to use a lubricating gel, but saliva is often enough.
Female oral sex: the erogenous zones to be stimulated
The most sensitive point is the clitoris and in particular its glans. This little magic switch is located in the front of the female, hidden between the folds of the lips.
However, the neighboring areas must not be neglected: the labia minora, the entrance to the vagina and possibly the area surrounding the anus are rich in pleasure receptors. Let your partner know ...
How to do it? The different positions of cunnilingus
Cunnilingus can be done in different positions. Here are the main ones:
- The woman is lying on her stomach, with her legs bent and spread apart. His partner is lying down or on his knees, with his head between his legs. This is the basic position.
- 69: the man and the woman look in opposite directions, with each head level with the sex of the other. The woman performs fellatio while the man performs a cunnilingus and each of the two feels pleasure.
- The woman is sitting on the man's face. In this case, lingual penetration is possible.
- The woman is standing and the man sitting or kneeling. In this position it is more difficult to reach the clitoris.
Tips for cunnilingus: hygiene
Perfect hygiene is essential for cunnilingus. If in doubt, take a shower before moving on to cunnilingus. This allows sweat and small natural losses to be washed away. If, despite this, the man finds the smell of your intimacy unbearable, suggest that he use a perfumed lubricant.
During menstruation, cunnilingus remains possible, unless you are HIV positive. But some men may not like this moment to do this practice, and we can even understand them
Can I get AIDS or other sexual diseases with cunnilingus?
Although AIDS is rarely transmitted through cunnilingus, it is possible to contract other infections: herpes or condyloma (painless growths), for example. And in this case the male condom can do nothing. The only solution: avoid cunnilingus when you have one of these diseases.
And after a pleasant foreplay like this, it's time to experiment with the most disparate positions.
