How to drive a man crazy in bed: 10 foolproof seduction tricks
Wondering how to drive a man crazy in bed? And what are the tricks of seduction to put in place to tie him to the bed to you?
To drive him crazy in bed requires cunning, a good dose of inventiveness and the creation of a fatal attraction. For this to be possible, it is necessary to “prepare the ground”, gather information and be attentive observers. Before proceeding, we immediately point out some original erotic practices to make your relationship even more lively, and your him happy.
Therefore, you will have to use all your winning weapons to hold the prey tight and conquer it to perfection: be careful not to make the most obvious mistakes to make with the other sex.
Man, as we know, loves to be in the foreground, especially in bed, loves to be satisfied, is always looking for maximum pleasure and is looking for a woman who seduces him, who makes him see (and hear) the stars. Arm yourself with a spirit of initiative to amaze him in bed withars amatoria.
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What are your weapons of seduction?
To arouse a man, the body plays a fundamental role, but it is not enough! We need to get to the heart and mind of the man we want to drive crazy with pleasure, also focusing on his self-esteem, dedicating ourselves to getting to know his body in detail.
By putting these tips into practice you will be able to drive your man crazy with pleasure and you will transform him into a better lover, capable of giving back and giving great satisfaction to you women too. In short, transform yourself into a seductive, bewitching, mysterious and always eager woman.
So here are 10 things to make a man go crazy with pleasure!
1. Take the initiative
Who said that if a man wants to show it openly?
A man must be indulged but he must also be teased and seduced, what better way to invite him to pleasure if the initiative comes from you women?
Man loves seductive surprises, those that lead him to bed, those that lead him to think about enjoying moments of pure sexual pleasure. Nothing easier! You just need to be active and create the opportunity that leads to pleasure.
Your man will go crazy if you take the initiative because men want to have women by their side who know how to move (in bed and not only) independently and free, uninhibited and without taboos.
You are leading the reins of the seductive game, the man must submit to your secret pleasure project that you have organized for him.
2. Stimulate male pride
Man loves to be pampered and praised: in short, man must always be placed in sight. Sex proves to be a moment dedicated exclusively to him, so what better opportunity to increase male self-esteem?
To excite a man, think of whispering pleasant comments into his ear extolling his physical abilities, express what you would like to do using your man's physical attributes, make him understand (without restrictions or taboos) that you want him for his qualities and that you continue to build sexual expectations by highlighting your man's physical characteristics. Amaze him already with a kiss that will make him dizzy.
3. The art of surprise
Expectation creates surprise, produces expectation and increases desire: refining the art of surprise is really simple!
What creates surprise? The news! Any novelty, any new desire, any erotic game and seductive position (perhaps in the shower?) Are welcome.
To offer five-star pleasure you need to vary, you must always manage the sexual act in a different way, it is good to work on foreplay (which men actually love!) To be halfway through the job.
Sex is a moment that must be managed freely without following stages or patterns, every day is always different, cravings change and desires do the same.
So try to identify different weak points of your man and tease them gradually, not all at the same time but individually, always varying the approach deductive. Take inspiration from the 100 positions of the Kamasutra
4. The "push and pull" game
Man loves to play in bed and, in the art of seduction, the playful act is always contemplated.
As we have said, the man loves foreplay but equally loves to jump ahead and get to penetration immediately.
Warning: do not give up immediately! Don't give up immediately. Remember that it is up to you to lead the game and that waiting stimulates desire and makes the sexual act more fiery and pleasant.
This does not mean having the attitude of the "woman who pulls it" but, on the contrary, take time in a playful way to seduce him and increase the pleasure of your man!
Play cunning by keeping it a bit on your toes and try to deny yourself, to move with malice, to rub yourself almost by mistake, to touch it in your private parts as if you are hinting at a gesture that is not completed and work with your gaze! All this will increase his sexual desire and the desire to possess you and enjoy your movements.
5. Oral sex
Among the sexual practices most requested by men we can include oral sex: this is one of the foreplay that men await with more pleasure and which they prefer because all the gestures of a woman focus on their attributes.
Oral sex is an act that a woman must arrive at without haste, without forging ahead and hinting at it between the gestures of foreplay with a "surprise effect".
Oral sex is men's favorite erotic art, this is a fact. Of course, it is a very intimate practice, not all women are willing to carry it out and, above all (as with any gesture) you need to be at ease.
Certainly oral sex increases a man's desire and prepares him to enjoy the subsequent moments of the actual sexual act. Oral sex is a good foreplay that can ensure you have a pretty hot evening.
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6. Point L
Men also have a point that, like the G-spot, if well stimulated, predisposes them to moments of real pleasure. This is the L point! The L point in men can be located between the anus and the testicles and, unfortunately, few women know it.
Stimulating the L point certainly surprises the man and invites him to think that in front of him there is an expert woman capable of making him enjoy it to the fullest!
The L point is a particular male area, very sensitive and which, if well stimulated, gently through the fingers or the tongue, offers the man very satisfying sensations! And if you want to indulge yourself completely and your partner is particularly imaginative, try the Rusty Trombone
7. Stimulate your eyesight
Man loves looking at his woman, perhaps with super sexy lingerie. He loves her erotic movements and the gestures she makes for him. So, let yourself be watched while you undress, move your body in order to attract the attention of your man, let yourself be spied by the keyhole in very intimate attitudes.
Man is by nature a voyeur: all means are approved to make you observe and capture his attention!
Think of auto-eroticism, organizing an erotic striptease or a seductive dance.
The self-eroticism of women exerts a great erotic charge on men; let yourself be surprised while "secretly" caressing your private parts, therefore, your man will feel compelled to intervene and help you "complete" the erotic game you have started. This will be a good opportunity to exchange roles and “work” at the same time to offer the other new sensations.
8. Sex and food
Who said eating isn't sexy? Of course, it depends on what you eat and how you do it.
Another way to seduce your man is to combine your sexy and erotic gestures with food: sex and food have always been considered a perfect combination.
Use aphrodisiac ingredients for your love recipes: you will immediately go from the kitchen to the bedroom!
9. Inspire him with the B side
Get out of the taboos and don't just think that the pleasure of women and men is linked to the stimulation of the vagina. Well, the b side is a very erotic part of the body to look at and not only!
The b-side of the woman has always had a particular fascination for men. Also proposing anal penetration and you will discover that it is a practice that pleases the man but also you. Think about surprising your man by letting him explore the b side of pleasure too!
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10. Role-playing games
The last tip is to invent sexy scenes and erotic situations in which you both play a role.
The doctor and the patient, the nurse and the sick, the housewife and the plumber, the boss and the secretary ... How many characters, how many situations you can invent to make every moment different, new and always exciting!
Fantasy knows no bounds and you will see that your man will also appreciate and gladly participate in erotic masquerade games.
These are the ten gestures that make a man go crazy with pleasure and that he will have a hard time forgetting! Put these ideas into practice and personalize them, adapting them to your man's needs to make him enjoy it to the fullest! Seeing is believing!
Article created by Alessandro Love Coach of ArteSeduzione.it See also: Sex in the car: 20 thrilling positions to have sex in the car!
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