5 secrets for experiencing top sexuality
Is it possible to improve one's sexuality? Yes, all specialists say it. But you have to know what to do to discover new sensations.
To be able to experience top sexuality you must first understand the general psychology of love and desire. It is also important get to know your body better. And finally, you need to feel at ease in the different gestures of intimacy.
In short, as Gérad Leleu says "sex is a language": and to speak it well, you need to know its alphabet. Only then can you have fun exploring positions like these ...
1. Trust yourself and learn to feel beautiful in order to experience top sexuality
Often a woman is afraid that she is not beautiful enough to be desirable. In reality when a man hugs the woman with whom he is experiencing a moment of physical intimacy, in his eyes she is always the most beautiful woman in the world!
The man is involved, touched by the intimacy, and also by the defects of the partner. It is a nice gift to the other, to show oneself in all one's vulnerability. Being aware of it allows you to put aside your complexes to take advantage of the moment you are living.
It is essential for a woman to be in harmony with her body in order to want to make love. So a preparation before love will be very stimulating for her. Take a good bath, smear essential oils or a scented cream all over your body for soft, delicious skin to breathe.
A few gestures are enough and the woman feels more seductive, despite the small flaws ...
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2. Top sexuality? Harmonize the rhythms
Often the man, at the beginning of sexual life, does not know that the female orgasm needs time. In a woman who has never experienced orgasm, it even takes time. 45 minutes of caresses to increase the excitement to the maximum and make her explode in orgasm. And clitoral stimulation is essential.
Since a man often reaches maximum arousal more quickly, he finds it hard to imagine that his partner needs so much time ... yet it is the reality. This duration tends to decrease with practice, as when a reflex like the orgasmic one is used, it becomes more reactive!
So learn to harmonize your rhythms, calmly. The less you hurry, the greater the pleasure ...
3. Cultivate pleasure by enjoying orgasm without penetration
Men need to stop thinking that sexuality consists almost exclusively of penetration. They must develop their feminine side, become more tender, listen more to their partner, enter a deeper intimacy with her. Only in this condition will they give and receive more pleasure.
It's time for women to realize that they don't necessarily need men to orgasm! Penis penetration into the vagina isn't the only way for a woman to have an orgasm. The sensations given by caresses of all kinds are equally interesting and important to explore for the multiplicity of sexual pleasures.
To teach a man how to caress the clitoris, for example, the partner must absolutely show him how she does it. This self-demonstration will make man understand the rhythm to use, at what point, when to continue and when to stop… in fact he caresses the other as he thinks he should do it and not how the other needs it. This is also true when the woman strokes her partner's penis.
4. Explore mental pleasure to experience top sexuality
The main sex organ is the brain! It greatly affects sexual pleasure and fulfillment. So it is important to act on the mind as well as on the sexual organs.
A very exciting game consists in putting into practice an erotic fantasy that is not too pushed, therefore not risky. For example, a couple may go to a restaurant knowing that she is not wearing panties under her dress. It's a secret that only partners know. Intimacy and excitement are stimulated, prelude to a very spicy evening ...
A very exciting game consists in putting into practice an erotic fantasy that is not too pushed, therefore not risky. For example, a couple may "go to a restaurant knowing that she is not wearing panties under her dress. It is a secret that only partners know." Intimacy and excitement are stimulated, prelude to a very spicy evening ...
5. Play down erection problems and dare to have oral sex
When a man has erection difficulties, it is not easy for him. In terms of male identity this situation is very painful. A woman who understands her partner, who reassures him, who plays down, is a real treasure for the man. Sometimes a few sentences are enough: "today or tomorrow ... there is no hurry ...".
And then it is important that a woman does not focus only on the penis, but also knows how to caress her partner in other areas: thighs, testicles, nipples ...
When a man has erection problems, fellatio can be very helpful if done correctly. In addition to the mouth, the partner has to make back and forth movements with her hand along the shaft of the penis. Synchronized use of the mouth and hand greatly stimulates an erection.
To have good oral sex, many women think that the penis must go deep into the mouth. Yet such a gesture is not necessarily the most pleasant for a man. To arouse pleasant sensations, it is not mandatory to mimic sexual intercourse by placing the penis in the mouth as in vaginal penetration. It's better play with your lips, licking, surface stimulation, gently kissing.
At that point you will be ready to try these and many other positions ...
