All that men dare not say in bed!
While we don't know everything about men's sexual tastes, we're sure there are some things they think about but don't dare confess us. Below we reveal all the innermost desires of the other sex: here are 20 things men don't dare say in bed!
Before discovering them, however, here are some secrets to experience sex in the best way!
1. Preliminary foreplay
Foreplay is not just a female pleasure, men also appreciate them because they are an alternative and equally enjoyable way to explore and gratify their sexuality. Have you ever heard a man complain about having too much oral sex? Of course not, because they love it. And not only that, even putting a pinch of pepper with some toy or lubricant is another of their often untrustworthy thoughts.
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2. Be in full control of the situation
Let it take over! They love to take the reins and be in control. But even women can't deny that the moment you reach the top and he gets carried away is something that drives them crazy too. That's why role-playing games are perfect for fulfilling these fantasies.
3. May you be more loving
While this may seem more like one of our desires, know that it is very often a need even of the so-called stronger sex. Men love to be hugged, looked into each other's eyes, kissed and also want to hear how much we love them while they make love. In short, a pinch of romance is more than appreciated by them too ...
4. They also love to be dominated
There are times when all they want is to put themselves at your service, get tied up to the bed, and get carried away by the situation. This can be a bit tricky to propose, so there are times when it is best to just take the initiative and put on the lousy dominatrix's clothes.
5. The power of oral sex
Oral sex is an entrancing practice for him, especially if he receives it: varying the rhythms, the movement, the intensity are all excellent techniques to take his pleasure to the stars.
6. Talk about his desires
Talking about your sexual fantasies as you imagine yourself fulfilling them is something that will surely make you both happy. And while you're in bed in the middle of the action, telling you what he likes and dislikes is something he likes too. Encourage him to communicate with you in those moments!
7. Approach from behind
Many women are reluctant to try anal sex, but it's something men always find attractive. It may be women's refusal to engage in these sexual practices that makes them regard it as an exciting challenge. But if you don't feel ready, wait, don't force yourself, rather dedicate yourself to other sexual fantasies that you feel more comfortable with.
8. The caresses
Running your hands all over his body is something that can really make him aroused.The use of creams and lubricants for this moment is ideal; even if masturbation is the protagonist at this point, you cannot ignore your boyfriend's other erogenous zones. Find out all that stimulation of the five senses can do in sex. of erotic candles, when they melt they become a suggestive massage oil that will be perfect to warm the atmosphere.
9. See how you please yourself
Watching a woman masturbate always drives men crazy, because it further amplifies their desire. If you want to prolong this moment as much as possible, don't let him touch you, watch until he reaches the limit and his excitement will skyrocket.
10. Whispers with a high erotic content
He goes crazy when you whisper to him all the hottest things you're going to do to him in bed. Try to play with him, when you are in public whisper in his ear some crazy idea that comes to your mind and you know he will appreciate, he will not stop thinking about it!
11. The surprises
An erotic dance, a provocative lingerie, impossible positions taken by the kamasutra, everything that comes out of the routine and unleashes the flame of desire is welcome. You don't have to do anything complicated, but make sure it's something original that he doesn't expect, it will drive him crazy!
12. Losing control
Making love slowly with a touch of romance is something she can't help but appreciate, but losing some control and going to the wilder and more primitive side is undoubtedly one of her most hidden desires.
13. Toys suitable for over 18s only
Many men are intimidated by vibrators, but they don't realize they can be their best allies. Why not introduce your man to these sex toys, even those generally considered feminine: you can try new sexual adventures and bring your physical pleasure and your understanding to the top.
14. Watch porn together
That most men watch porn on their own is a fact, but it's also a fact that they would like their partners to watch it with them. Why not give it a try? You may find it inspiring and exciting too ...
15. See yourself in action
A mirror on the ceiling or on a wall can be a great ally for them, if not an amplifier of pleasure: they love to see themselves in action!
16. Change position
The bedroom and the bed are fine, but every now and then it is good to add a pinch of novelty. Men like risk and change, making love in the kitchen, living room, bathroom ... Even in a public place! They can be shy and not be the first to propose themselves, but if you are the one to take the initiative, rest assured that they will accept more than willingly.
17. Staging a show
Undressing and putting on a show is something they love, but on both sides. Whether it's their show or that of their partner, in both cases, they will appreciate it a lot. Seeing is believing.
18. Let him know that you are enjoying
A good way to make you understand that you are on the right path is to express appreciation: for them it is an incentive to continue and take you to heaven. Deep breaths and cries of pleasure are welcome, there is nothing more motivating for them!
19. Increase their self-esteem
Complexes are not just our thing, men also have doubts about their body, their way of making love and, above all, the size of their penis. A few motivating words will always be helpful.
20. The male G-spot
This is a controversial topic, many men are reluctant to let us explore their B-side but do not know how far their pleasure can go if we reach their G-spot. Those who have already experienced this feeling are sure to want to repeat it.
