If you don't like yourself, maybe you are sabotaging yourself with the wrong outfit!
Come closer all because we have to talk about a moment that almost certainly 90% of you have experienced at least once in their lives: that morning when, in a hurry, we change outfits at least 5 times before leaving the house with something we would never have worn and which in the end there is also very bad. We get nervous, we try and try again, and in the end we abandon ourselves to the most hidden item of the wardrobe, and not by chance: hidden because we hope not to find it promptly every time we feel this way. But the truth is that all this movement of intolerance and changes arises from a profound sabotage that we do to ourselves: when we don't like ourselves, when we are unable to look at ourselves in the mirror with kind eyes, when we do everything to feel far from our comfort zone. To avoid all this, we can train every day in front of the mirror like this:
The wrong outfit affects our safety
It will seem silly, because if a person is confident, they certainly are not because of the way they dress, the accessories they choose or the shoes they wore that morning. It is also foolish, however, not to take into consideration the shape of one's body and how the fact of choosing certain garments is a way to pay homage to our shapes, accentuated or not. It is not so difficult to choose a look that does not enhance our physicality. And the step between this possibility and feeling "ugly" in front of a mirror is really short. Think about the actions you take every time you are in a dressing room before buying a garment: you try it on, it doesn't fit perfectly, you put it down. But often you like it so much that you can't give it up. So then you find it in the closet but in reality it doesn't look great. But not because you are not beautiful, or because your body has some problems: simply because it is not for you. We are so many, each with a body. so different from another, each with its own beauty and a strange and innate ability to not be able to realize it. Choosing the garments according to the physique will surely help you to avoid the whims when you find yourself in front of the mirror.
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Some clichés to dispel about outfits and physicality
It often happens that when we choose the clothes to wear, we are limited by the idea that the world has of fashion and what we are "allowed" to wear. Here are some examples of top phrases:
- you are short, do not wear long skirts
- if you have these curves, white NEVER!
- do you have a belly? Never put horizontal lines!
- the midi skirt? Only if you are 1.90m!
In short, every time we are fascinated by a striped dress, we panic and we leave it there in the shop to prevent it from attacking us and making us look "fatter"! Let's talk clearly: there are garments that are good for those with a leaner physique, others for those who are curvy. But if we are 1.50 tall, it will certainly not be a long skirt that will make us look short. We are, and that's okay. Just as if we don't have breasts, who cares, or if we have big hips or big thighs: who cares! Do we like the lines that widen? We wear them, period. The sabotage comes when we are convinced that that thing can not suit us, and we put it into it anyway. Or when we have a curvy body, and we want to dress at all costs in the same clothes that the model in the advertisement wears. There are no clothes that we cannot wear, if we feel like it, but we must learn to know our body and, above all, to LOVE it for what it is. And if you don't know where to start, take a cue from her:
