Why putting yourself first is the best thing you can do: here are 16 good reasons to do it!

We often lose sight of ourselves. We don't even notice it. But when we realize it, it is good to take back your life by placing ourselves at the center and in the first place.

Discover 16 good reasons to do it.

1. You can go your own way

You don't have to be a leader or follow someone else. You can make your own decisions. Of course, you can listen to the advice of others. But there is nothing that you cannot decide for yourself when it comes to personal life.

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2. You don't have to be accountable to anyone

Whether you want to spend an evening dancing or sitting comfortably on the sofa reading a book or watching your favorite series, this is a decision that is entirely up to you. Nobody has to ask for answers on that ... except if Ryan Gosling asks you.

3. You will be happier

Missed opportunities? Could I, would I, should I? Afraid of failing? Don't ask yourself too many questions and live.

4. You are strong and independent

You can stand on your own feet and make your own decisions without necessarily having to ask for reassurance from someone.

5. You will see things differently

Monday is one of the seven days of the week. Nothing else. Monday is not the problem, if anything it is your attitude towards it.

6. You improve yourself

Whether you have chosen to join the gym to slim down your thighs or have decided to stretch in the office despite the bewildered looks of your colleagues, this is just a big step towards self-improvement.

7. You will never lose sight of who you are

If you spend 24 hours a day pleasing others, and always looking for new ways to please them, from friend to mother, from boss to colleague, you will surely take a look at yourself and YOUR needs.
You have to put yourself back at the center because this will allow you to better face your dramas and your bad days, not just those of others.

8. Being on your own doesn't scare you

Once you have learned to be comfortable with yourself and to accept your own company, you will see that you will then be able to appreciate the company of others better!

9. You don't care what others think

If you are comfortable with your way of living and doing things you can really not care what others think! Please stay away from those who only know how to judge!

10. You will be surprised by yourself

Being positively selfish by putting yourself first will simply lead you to be happier and achieve your goals. Goals you didn't know you had or that you thought were too high for you.

11. Grab and go!

If you are full of initiative and want to go out and perhaps travel the world, you will see that others will follow you too. Even that friend who after a while pretended not to see you on the street.

12. You will have no regrets

You don't have time to sit still and think about what it was. Looks ahead.

13. I feel wonderful!

Take care of yourself and be the very reason for your happiness? There is nothing better.

14. You will learn to cope with change

A lot of people frown at the change. It is easy to indulge in habits. But after all, what is so tragic or scary about change? If anything, it can be an opportunity to progress.

15. You set your own standards

When you find that you are measuring your satisfaction and achievement against standards set by others, that's when you need to stop trying to be someone you are not.
There is nothing worse than losing control of your life by allowing others to distract you from your real life plans.

16. It is an achievement

Putting yourself first is like managing a relationship: it takes time, effort, work. Patience, commitment and determination. But what matters is that in the end you will be happy, that you can really smile for something.

“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls "(Joseph Campbell)
Follow your happiness and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls before.

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