Foot fetish: why do many love this sexual practice?
How many times in our life has it happened to us to have appreciations on our feet? The renowned fantastic feet of a woman. We take care of them, some times more, others zero. We choose the shoes we like best, from sneakers to décolleté, according to the situation and mood. We hardly stop to think of our feet as an object of sexual desire. Yet for many it is, it is a real fetish. which they can hardly give up. And from there opens up a universe of pleasure and experimentation. Have you ever had a partner who is passionate about feet? There are many sexual activities to experience as a couple, look here:
Foot fetishism is a very common sexual practice, especially in men, and can have different natures, from simple passion to real obsession with its limitations. But let's understand together what foot fetishism really is, when it manifests itself. and why it fascinates many men!
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What is foot fetishism?
Foot fetishism is a paraphilia or perversion, which is what psychology or sexology textbooks define as "any intense and persistent sexual interest other than sexual interest in genital stimulation or sexual foreplay with phenotypically normal, physically mature and consenting. ”Basically it is a sort of displacement of sexual desire towards a part of the body other than the genital organs, and in this case it is the foot, or feet in general, and also everything that revolves around the foot, such as shoes, pantyhose or stockings. The foot fetishist, therefore, is a person who experiences sexual arousal more from shoes and feet than from breasts or bottoms. Many men feel attraction to women's feet or when they see a nice shoe, or more generally for other unexpected parts of the body.There are in fact various "levels" of fetishism: a level that we can define soft, that is the one in which a man likes a woman's feet and gets excited by touching or smelling them; a more complex level, associated with disorders or synonymous with a problem, when the passion of the fetishists for the feet becomes an obsession, for which the man feels sexual arousal only with the feet and the sexual practices that revolve around this object of the It can be a problem because in this case fetishists think about sex or feel arousal only for that fetish, and forget the rest, and this can compromise a relationship.
Why do they like feet? The causes of this fetishism
Sexuality is a universe made up of freedom, pleasure, emotion and even perversions, even the books on sexology say so. Everyone has their own, some more socially "accepted", others less so. How many men like women's feet but, when it comes to fetishism, do they smile pretending to be indifferent? This is because we come from a "complex upbringing in which we have not always felt free to be ourselves in the blankets.
The causes of foot fetishism are explained to us by Freud, according to whom this paraphilia derives from the conflict generated by the child's discovery that the mother does not have a penis. The foot, as well as the footwear, is one of the first things a baby encounters in the mother, especially if we think about the moment in which she crawls. So it remains imprinted in the memory of the child and can turn into the object of desire. The passion for this part of the body can also be linked to the desire for submission, which can be easily associated with the foot. In short, feet are liked for various reasons, but how is desire and arousal for this fetish expressed?
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Foot fetish: the most common practices
So how do fetishists behave? How do they explore sex or pleasure through practices related to this paraphilia? There are various practices that involve both the bare foot, clean or not, or just the toes, both footwear, tights and stockings: new, used, whole, with holes. Let's see what these practices are (some of which, due to their strangeness, are sometimes associated with disorders!), From the simplest and most widespread, even for non-fetishists, to the most "complex" ones, typical of real fetishists:
- Foot massage: very common practice, not necessarily linked to foot fetishism, but rather frequent during foreplay preceding sexual intercourse.
- Tickling, consists precisely in tickling the partner's feet with the fingers or with specific objects, such as feathers.
- Sniffing the feet, but also the shoes. This practice is done for some time, repeatedly and carefully, and often more welcome if related to dirt.
- Licking your feet, with calm and dedication.
- Footjob, which consists in using the feet as a means to masturbate the partner.
- Getting trampled, both without shoes and with shoes, is a practice closely linked to the concept of submission.
- Eating with your partner's feet, i.e. grabbing food with your partner's feet and eating it from there.
- Eating from the feet, i.e. eating the residues present between the partner's toes.
In short, foot fetishism opens up a world of sexual practices that everyone will feel akin to their own way of seeing a relationship or sex in general. But we are free, as long as our freedom does not limit or invade that of others. In short, if your partner is obsessed with feet during sexual intercourse, or if in general a person is obsessed with their partner's feet, sharing and communication are essential to experiment together!
