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Fellatio: all the tips to drive him crazy

What is fellatio? An oral caress

Fellatio is an oral practice that consists in stimulating the penis with the tongue, lips, mouth. The man derives an intense pleasure from it that can lead him directly to orgasm. When fellatio is practiced at the same time as cunnilingus, we speak of 69.

If in the past fellatio was practiced only by prostitutes, today it has become part of sexual habits and is an integral part of foreplay. Also because sex is beautiful because it is varied, and only by offering something new every time can we give a boost to our sexual life, look at these curiosities:

The fellatio technique

In theory, fellatio must reproduce the movement of penetration. Specifically: introduce your partner's penis into your mouth, being careful not to hurt it with your teeth, and mimic a classic sexual intercourse, making back and forth movements. But be careful, try to avoid the reproduction of a monotonous and mechanical gesture, only moving the penis in the mouth back and forth. The important thing is to vary the rhythm, the intensity of the caresses, alternating passion and delicacy. Don't just hold the erect penis in your mouth but kiss it, lick it, suck it and tickle it.
Don't try to apply what you've read, seen in movies, or heard to the letter.
Each person is different so there is no general and miraculous method to give pleasure and achieve orgasm. To be sure you really satisfy your man, pay attention to his reactions and do not hesitate to ask him what he prefers.

Sensitive areas for male arousal

To really drive him crazy with pleasure, insist on particularly sensitive areas. Concentrate on the glans, very rich in pleasure receptors, and on the crown, which joins the shaft to the glans. The frenulum is also a very sensitive area. In addition to the penis, don't forget to pamper the testicles and the perineum, that is, the area near the anus where the male G-spot is located. Let your hands voluptuously explore the genitals, the umbilical area and the inner thighs! You can also use anything else at your disposal to increase the arousal, such as sex toys or food. Of course, make sure your partner agrees before using any of these items!
In short, build a path made of sweetness and sensuality, you will see that your him will be really excited in the end.

To learn more, read: "Make him happy" by Linda L. Paget, at € 8 on Amazon

Fellatio and ejaculation

When orgasm approaches, the big question is: what do I do? Many men have among their desires that their partner swallow sperm, but be aware that it is by no means mandatory! You have to do as you feel, your partner will still get pleasure from fellatio. If the idea of having semen in your mouth disgusts you, ask your partner to withdraw before orgasm, otherwise you can let him ejaculate in your mouth and then spit the semen.

In which positions do fellatio?

There are many positions to try and there is not an ideal one: in bed with your head hidden under the covers, kneeling in front of your partner or with your back to your partner (so that he can admire your backside).
The important thing is to vary and above all to feel at ease! In fact, if you are not comfortable you will get tired quickly. And if you're not yours, your partner will notice and the moment will be less exciting for both of you.
The position you choose is also important because you must be able to perceive, without obstacles, the reactions of your partner, to enjoy them too.

See also: Kamasutra in the shower: here are the best positions!

Sexually transmitted diseases

Attention, it is important to remember that fellatio does not prevent the transmission of AIDS, hepatitis B, herpes and other sexually transmitted diseases, especially if the oral cavity has lesions. If you are not completely sure of your partner, use a condom (there are different flavors to make the act even more enjoyable, see Amazon) and protect yourself from all possible risks.

Overcoming inhibitions

Some women do not like to practice fellatio and are disgusted at the idea of putting their partner's sex in their mouth. In this case, propose to your man to take a shower together and take the opportunity to thoroughly wash his penis. If, despite this, you really don't feel like doing fellatio, don't force yourself: your partner will realize this and will feel less pleasure. The idea is to have a pleasant and exciting time for both of you. Talk about your doubts with your partner, perhaps over time you will be able to overcome them.
And if your imagination increases in the shower, here are some little tips to help you pass the time