How to tell if a shy guy likes you
Love is made up of subtexts, of unrequited glances because, while he is lost fantasizing about you, you are thinking of the eggplant parmigiana that you know you will find on the table on Sunday for lunch.
Not all guys are the same, there are the most daring ones and there are those who, in order not to make the first move, would remain to admire you in silence while you are lost in your mental ruminations.
Do not give up, if there is a certain attraction at the base, you will be able to pull the strings of the speech and ... to talk about it in a lot of different positions!
Who are the shy guys
First of all, let's dispel a myth: timid people exist. Shy people exist and, although society has always wanted men to take the initiative, some are a little more reluctant to ask you out. This does not mean, however, that they feel nothing for you, only that you have to learn to read them in different way!
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How to tell if a shy friend likes it
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We women were born to investigate: give us a detail and, after 10 minutes on social media, we will find the guy you met by chance in the disco and who I swear he was just like Ryan Gosling.
With a shy guy, investigating isn't always good, especially putting his friends under pressure. First of all, there's a good chance they're shy too, and secondly, you just don't know how they'd react after learning that Sherlock, aka you, has suspicions.
Avoid direct questions and study the situation silently - there are plenty of ways to find out more ...
The live attitudes of a shy guy
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A shy guy is present, maybe he doesn't talk a lot when you are in a group, but he is still a silent figure who makes you understand that you can count on him.
One of the things you can pay attention to, for example, is how they interact with you when you are together.In friendship and as a couple we tend to use a shared language, expressions and words that did not belong to us before and that now, by dint of hearing them, have become an integral part of our daily life. The same goes for body movements.
If when you are together he reflects your position and tries not to close himself, for example by crossing his arms, this is certainly an excellent starting point: shy yes, but he certainly wants to meet you and make himself known better ...
How to tell if a shy guy likes you with online attitudes
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The difference between a good friend and a potential boyfriend is attraction. If you want to find out if your shy friend could become your shy boyfriend, you have to pay close attention to details.
If he looks for you and asks what you did over the weekend, perhaps also to find out if you met Ryan Gosling at the disco, if he reads your messages immediately but to answer you it takes a lifetime because he writes and rewrites and if on WhatsApp he is much more to comfortable than it is when you are one in front of the other ... You try it!
If you like him, you think he likes you and he's shy, there's nothing wrong with taking the lead.
At best you will have found the key to happiness while, at worst, you will find yourself at home in the evening reviewing Ryan's filmography.
To be honest, it wouldn't be too bad ...
