FLIRTING: ALL THE TECHNIQUES TO DO IT IN PERSON OR IN CHAT

There are as many flirtations as there are relationships: from flirting with the ex to that with a new flame, to the light-hearted seduction carried out without a specific purpose, just for pleasure. How do you, however, flirt without embarrassment Here are the tips we have compiled for you, but one thing is certain: body language is the foundation of flirting! Find out how to understand the signals in the video below.

All the beauty of flirting

Flirting is a word that derives from the English flirt and indicates a light, superficial but at the same time interested sentimental attitude towards another person. And "all that" set of looks, winks, giggles and awkward pauses that precedes a more intimate acquaintance. The attraction, both sexual and mental, is expressed precisely by flirting: in this context, body language is very important because it signals that we are available and open towards the other.

You can flirt with a person we have recently met but who has awakened our interest: it is the classic crush, when the excitement and the desire to discover the other is very high; however, we may also want to tease our ex. In this case, flirting becomes more dangerous because the desire for revenge or the desire to always remain at the center of thoughts comes into play. One of the most satisfying flirts, however, is what we can have on vacation. The situation of light-heartedness and relaxation leads to letting go and there is nothing wrong with starting a relationship for fun.

Seducing is something that can not necessarily happen in person. Indeed, sometimes the courtship via chat is even more exciting because protected by the smartphone or PC screen, we can express our feelings more freely. In this case, however, be careful to send personal photos or images. We have all flirted at least once in our life via chat and, indeed, many women prefer this mode because, while a certain amount of shyness takes over in person, online it is much easier to get rid of embarrassment.

Some even think that flirting also helps long-time couples. It seems, in fact, that carrying out small acts of seduction with our partner can help keep the flame of passion alive. How "is it possible? It's very simple: flirting is something we usually do with a pseudo known: doing it with our long-term partner / partner can spice up the relationship because it almost seems to mean" hey, do you know that I still want to discover you? ".
Realizing that the partner is still looking at us with interest is very exciting: the attraction, in this way, is assured!

And what about flirting with another when you're already in a couple? Some consider it an "innocent activity, others, on the other hand, think that seducing someone (even if you do not come to a real conclusion) is already cheating. According to psychologists there is not a definitive answer valid for all couples because a lot it depends on the type of relationship we have with our partner. However, the fact remains that, although a flirtation is something light and superficial, it could hurt the other person. The advice is, therefore, to dose it very carefully. What would you think, in fact, if you catch your boyfriend or her your girlfriend flirting with another? Let's say that in this case the rule of "do to others only what you want done to you" applies.

How to flirt in person

We have collected tips for flirting with someone face to face: here's how to make others understand that you like them and that you would like to learn more, without exposing yourself too much with words.

First, never talk about heavy, deep or too intimate topics. Flirting is based on light, sparkling communication, sometimes even superficial, but always and in any case fun.
Pay attention to body language. The body sends out implicit messages that we can read to understand if the other is attracted to us. Touching your lips or hair, for example, are clear signs of sexual attraction, as is crossing your legs.
The look is everything. During flirting, the way in which one looks at the other is fundamental because the eyes tell much more than many words ... Be careful, however, not to exaggerate: keeping your gaze fixed on the other is not a good technique!
Throw some subtle allusions. A little provocation every now and then can help to warm the spirits. A well-placed sentence hits the mark and opens the door to a more intimate acquaintance.

Randomly brushing. A small and elusive body contact does not expose excessively but makes it clear that we are available to the other person. Also, if you touch someone when they least expect it, the surprise effect will make everything even more exciting.
Smiling and laughing often convey a sense of trust and make it clear that you are completely comfortable in the game of seduction.
Taking an interest in the other. Asking questions, making him talk about himself, making oneself receptive to him is a good technique to induce the other person to trust you.

Flirt with someone we met in chat

New technologies, including dating chats and dating sites, open up a world of infinite possibilities for meeting new people. Flirting on WhatsApp or Tinder, for example, allows us to say things that we might not have the courage to express live. But be careful not to send hot photos and videos to people we don't know: trusting is good, not trusting is better, and revenge porn is, unfortunately, a very real possibility. Here are some tips to flirt great even in chat:

Keep the conversation light and don't tell too much personal information about yourself, especially if the other person is a complete stranger. Talk about your (or her) hobbies and passions, but don't choose too much detail.
Don't be too pushy but remember, compliments are always welcome.
By writing behind a screen you can be a little more daring with words. While in person you have to fight against your shyness, in fact, via chat it is easier to expose yourself a little more. If you want to raise the level of conversation, there is nothing better than doing it with words.
To avoid an embarrassing farewell, end the conversation first. Being the first to leave the field always gives you a certain advantage. Also, this way you raise interest in you while the other is behind a screen.