5 bad relationship habits you may have inherited from your parents
Parents, of course, have a "very strong influence on their children. First of all, mum and dad are the first adults with whom we interface and it is from them that we learn to fall, to get up, to pick up a fork in the same way. The problem is that, however, they are not perfect and we often end up with small defects that we struggle to correct.
- · 1. Talk to everyone except the person concerned
- · 2. Live badly the physical sphere of love
- · 3. You don't trust your partner
- · 4. Everything is competition
- · 5. Betray
1. Talk to everyone except the person concerned
In your house complaints were on the agenda, however, none of your parents addressed their complaints to the right person and tended to vent with you listening and accumulating.
Today it often happens that you unleash your controversy with everyone except the person concerned. It's like you're throwing gasoline on gasoline and, when there is a spark, you have no idea how big the explosion could be.
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2. Live badly the physical sphere of love
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If your parents have never exchanged kisses in front of you, or caresses, or hugs, it is very likely that you too, with your partner, live in a situation of constant confusion.
What is lawful and what is not lawful to do in front of others?
And if the "fateful chat" never happened, and we mean the one based on sanitary pads, protected intercourse and sexually transmitted diseases, it will be even more complex to perceive our parents as sexual creatures and this, consequently, will make it difficult to imagine us in situations. in which, mistakenly, we believe that they never found each other.
3. You don't trust your partner
You have seen your parents doubt each other so many times that today it comes naturally to doubt your him. If he is a few minutes late, you imagine him with his lover and when he does not answer it is surely because he is hiding something from you.
Talk to him, together you can solve the problem.
4. Everything is competition
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Love is running together, it is not looking faster than the other in order to finish first. If, on the other hand, your parents lived their relationship by stretching and forgetting to play as a team, it is possible that you too are struggling to fully understand this concept. .
Sometimes competing can be good but always remember that you and your other half must always be on the same side.
5. Betray
You have seen your parents betray themselves and therefore, by now, you have the firm belief that no one is with us to stay.
That's why you struggle to practice monogamy, used to the feeling of abandonment.
There are people who start out more favored than us but don't despair: alone or asking for help you can live a love like a movie.
