Oral sex: everything you need to know
Oral caresses, orogenital intercourse, otherwise known as cunnilingus and fellatio: the names do not matter, what matters is that oral sex participates in the smooth running of the sexual act, allows you to get to know the other's body better and is an integral part of caresses loving, always.
A complete section of the Kamasutra is dedicated to oral sex. In the Middle Ages, these practices were considered too pushed and severely repressed by the Church. Then, with the passing of the centuries, and in parallel with female emancipation, oral sex became part of amorous customs, especially foreplay.
Today various surveys show that fellatio is practiced by 7 out of 10 women and cunnilingus by 8 out of 10 men.
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Oral sex: fellatio and cunnilingus
Oral sex includes two practices that concern respectively the stimulation of the male and female sexual organs with the mouth.
Fellatio consists in introducing the penis into one's mouth, to suck it, lick it and caress it with the tongue. These wave movements simulate the penetration of the vagina, and are a source of intense pleasure for men, a pleasure that can lead to orgasm and therefore to ejaculation. You just have to be careful not to hurt your teeth. To really please your man, avoid overly mechanical movements. Think about alternating the speed and intensity of the sucking, you will be in seventh heaven!
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Cunnilingus, on the other hand, consists in caressing the female sex with the mouth, even practicing a kind of lingual penetration, especially arousing the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina. Much appreciated by women, this practice is only effective if done calmly. The ideal would be to start with manual caresses to increase desire, then moving on to brushing the lips, blowing, sucking and tapping the tongue of varying intensity. In the best of cases, this technique allows you to reach orgasm.
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How to have good oral sex? The secrets to do it and receive it at its best
More intimate and sweet than penetration, full of sensuality, these caresses are carried out with the help of the mouth, an object of pleasure thanks to its heat and humidity. Thanks to it, it is possible to insist on some erogenous zones of the male or female sex.
For fellatio, you need to focus above all on the glans (the crown in particular), an area rich in pleasure receptors.
As for cunnilingus, warn your man: what drives you crazy is the light sucking around the clitoris (that hypersensitive button that is located at the intersection of the labia minora) and near the anus. Ecstasy is assured. And if it does not come, suggest that he continue with these positions ...
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Oral sex: why some don't like doing it or receiving it?
While for half of the couples (50%), these oral cuddles are part of the preliminaries that precede each relationship, for others this remains a rare practice that intervenes in the sexual act from time to time (30%). For 20% of couples, oral sex is just plain disgusting.
Fellatio, cunnilungus and other kisses are considered dirty because they approach the excretory pathways. Other people see oral sex as a humiliating act, a sign of submission to the partner. Women are also afraid of being surprised by a sudden ejaculation.
If the block continues and spoils the pampering, talk to your man to find a solution together (thorough washes, scented lubricants ...).
Oral sex and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs): can oral sex be dangerous?
While oral sex does not involve direct vaginal or anal penetration, sexually transmitted diseases cannot be ruled out.
Oral sex is wrongly considered safe against this type of disease. In fact, many STDs (including herpes, chlamydia, syphilis, hepatitis B, warts or HIV ...) can also be transmitted with oral sex, especially oral sex is associated with other types of intercourse such as anal and vaginal penetration.
All these diseases can be transmitted orally especially in the presence of bleeding gums, wounds or ulcers in the mouth, or if the woman is menstruating while cunnilingus is practiced or if the man ejaculates during fellatio.
It should also be remembered that oral sex increases the risk of contracting the Papilloma virus, responsible for cancers of the mouth and oral cavity.
To reduce the risk of STDs, you can follow some rules, such as limiting the number of sexual partners and avoiding oral sex with unknown partners. Dental dams (DAM) can also be used to spread on the vagina before cunnilingus, or, in the case of fellatio, a condom.
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