How to conquer a guy: tailor-made seduction techniques for today's women
If there was a way, like a magic potion capable of making a man fall in love when a woman desires it, at first sight and without any effort, it would undoubtedly be the best-selling product of all. But do you know how boring it is to lose the taste for conquest and always have every person you want available? Not to mention the other side of the coin: because if there ever was an effective love filter, the victim could be you and maybe you would always fall in love with the wrong type, every time. It probably happens to you already, but this is another story and the filter doesn't matter (and it happens to everyone). By continuing to read you will discover some simple and effective conquest strategies: but remember, the hardest part comes later! Because making a relationship work for a long time, even after the early days, is a much more difficult mission. Perhaps the first secret is just this: never ask yourself “what if it should end?”.
When you have chosen your prey
Who would have thought? What seemed like an impossible mission has just ended successfully. You have identified a guy you like, you are interested in, in short, you would like the guy of your dreams to fall at your feet and he has all the requirements to be the right one. (You say this every time, you know!) When a woman gets something in her head, it can take time but sooner or later she gets it. An advice that is always valid for every woman is to get to know him better before starting off with all the strategies and all the conquest tips that you will learn by reading this article and make the man you like capitulate. You may find that you don't like him that much anymore when he's hot and cooked and the trouble is done. In short, what I'm telling you is to think about it and be sure that he will leave his mark on your life. And now let's go!
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How to conquer a boy: the mysterious woman
To ignite a man's interest and curiosity and to learn to seduce, he always retains a bit of mystery. This is always true for every woman and for all stages of courtship: the unspoken is precious! Never tell him your whole life in a dinner, never reveal strengths and weaknesses and too many things about you in a preview rather than let him get an idea. Do not follow him on social media and do not grant him your virtual friendship too quickly: if he always knows all your movements in preview, if he knows what you are doing and where you are, he will avoid asking you! Under the same strategy you can also insert the rule never send all those messages a day (over 3 are "all those messages"), never bombard him with questions, never respond immediately to his messages as if you were not expecting anything else. In short, if you have a life, your spaces, your things and your times, you will certainly be a more interesting prey for the guys who, let's face it, fear a little (and do well) the "mussel attached to the rock" effect. Read on, find out all the other tips and go on the attack!
How to conquer a guy: the natural woman
In conquering every woman has two paths ahead: to know the guy you like, and to conquer him by pretending to be the right woman for him by sharing his passions, his interests and his thoughts or showing himself for who he is, placing himself in a clear and direct way ... and maybe who knows if you don't really have something in common! If the first hypothesis can speed up your time, it is clear that you will not be able to pretend to be someone else for life. When he discovers the deception, because yes he will discover it, he will lose esteem and trust in you forever and then yes, he will no longer care. What's the point of lying to the man of your dreams? Being natural and spontaneous, without pretending passions, hobbies and ideals is just a valid strategy to win over the guy you are interested in. Why then come on, admit it, but if he doesn't like you for who you are and doesn't appreciate the real "you", are you really sure it's your good to be with someone like that?
How I dress: style tips
Men never like all those devilish things we invent to make us feel more beautiful. The advice is therefore to choose garments in which you feel good, at ease, and that really represent your style. If you feel comfortable with a flashy 12 heel, go ahead, but if you are a jeans and t-shirt type, don't give up on what makes you feel good! Choose what you value and don't overdo it: being vulgar won't make you look more glamorous! What is essential is that your clothes are clean and ironed well: this will give you a very good idea of you. As for make-up, remember that men are not like us and they will not notice that the red lipstick you wear is Chanel's latest! The truth is, they prefer us when we are natural, even when we just woke up! Of course, you can cheat by choosing nude makeup that enhances your strengths by masking small flaws. Ah, and never forget your most important accessory to seduce a guy: the smile! Men like a woman who knows how to face life with enthusiasm and who also has a bit of a healthy sense of humor and self-irony. So, no complaints and smile: this is practically already yours!
Who gets the first move?
Whether you do it or that he does it at this point doesn't matter anymore. If the spark has ignited between you, if you like to talk and confront each other, if the language of your bodies speaks clearly and you have played your cards right at this point ... it's done! He may not have told you everything yet but for sure he has understood and if he is still there next to you ... whoever starts the attack is no longer a problem!
How to get a guy if he's a friend
If you and he are friends it is evident that he appreciates you and loves your company: if he does not consider you from that other point of view, it is because you have exceeded that unwritten limit made up of trust and sincerity and he already loves you. However, if you know everything about the other and continue to like it, it might be worth a try. Among the pros of trying to win a friend there is certainly the fact that he knows you and therefore you won't have to play a role that doesn't suit you. But if she has never thought of you as a woman to go with and you are in the full friend zone and not in love, there will be a reason! In order not to risk too much and not to ruin the friendship, do not be too impulsive but rather give him a way to gradually reach your own conclusions. Make him a little jealous and try to show yourself sexy and charming just like you've never done before. There is no need to flirt too much to let your friend (who knows you like the back of his hand) understand that in addition to the friend ... there is more!
How to get a guy if he's an ex
It is the dream of every woman left behind, but this is also an adventure in which I recommend that you enter only after careful evaluation. There are those who think exactly the opposite: never with an ex! The truth may be somewhere in between. Because when a reason is over between you there will be even if you don't remember it or it doesn't seem relevant to you. And if the reason is excessive jealousy, betrayals, character incompatibilities and insurmountable defects ... well, rest assured that everything will seem perfect at first, but after a few months the actual problems that have driven you away will come knocking on your door again. But if when you broke up it was because you were going through a difficult period, due to misunderstandings and small defects and above all if you didn't hurt yourself too much (and if you did yourself a little good too) then it might be worth doing a attempt to figure out if he is the right person. The ex is just the right person with whom it is much better to be direct and aim for the goal: maybe he is waiting for nothing else! In love it takes luck and luck, you know, is a woman!
