How to improve sex life? 12 ideas to impress your him
January: Pose for a sexy calendar
One of the first ideas to improve your sex life could be to take sensual shots and then create a calendar to give to your partner. Follow these rules:
- Rule # 1: pamper yourself. Hair removal, glamorous make-up, with doe eyes and fiery red lips.
- Rule # 2: let yourself go. Forget your complexes, we will forget about our beautiful underwear, our languid and sexy poses ... while remaining chic, without vulgarity!
- At this point select the 12 best shots and print them creating a calendar to give to your boyfriend: he will be pleasantly surprised.
For a soft version: use accessories behind which to hide the private parts.
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Fetishism: what it is and how to deal with this sexual behavior Foot fetish: why do many love this sexual practice? © GettyImagesFebruary: Try remote arousal
It doesn't take long, just make an appointment with your man via video conference or chat. Shortly before, put on a bathrobe with sexy lingerie underneath. Connect and start chatting, alluding to the fact that "it's hot" start undressing starting from the "bathrobe. Talk describing the feelings you feel and the points where you would like to caress. All this will serve to warm the atmosphere and explode the passion when you will be together.
The soft version: if you are not comfortable in video, you can use the voice notes of the phone. Or use the sexting technique, much loved by various couples.
March: propose to use sex toys
Erotic games and sex toys are often taboo for many couples. Try to take the first step if you see some resistance from the partner, take the situation in hand and propose to use a vibrator or something similar. There are many on the market and they will serve to warm the atmosphere in the couple.
Soft version: first talk to your partner about your intentions without confronting him with a fait accompli. Leverage your willingness to try and experiment ... who knows you won't accept!
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April: it's time to act!
In April, to improve the couple's sex life, you can think about staging some role-playing games. Prepare everything to perfection: set up the scenario, buy the right clothes and even learn some catchy phrases. It may seem strange but this type of games is very useful for finding complicity in the couple and enjoying good sex with your partner. Seeing is believing!
For a soft version: talk to your partner about your fantasies by pointing out what turns you on, he will most likely take the initiative himself to satisfy your desire.
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May: Don't underestimate masturbation
Masturbation allows you to stimulate other areas, like the clitoris, while your man takes care of your breasts - what better way to spice up the fun?
During the penetration, especially if you are in the position of the rider on him, bringing your hands to the private parts will allow you to provoke a pleasant rubbing, at a pace that suits you. The same goes for the "doggie" position, when your partner is behind you: put a pillow or just your hands between your legs to increase the pressure on the clitoris.
The soft version: if you don't feel comfortable, start discovering your body on your own. Lie down in a quiet position. Start by stroking your chest with your fingertips and gently descend towards the belly and then towards the genitals. You can use an intimate massage oil or a lubricating gel to increase the sensations. With your fingers, move your lips, vagina and clitoris in circular movements, varying the intensity, direction and speed of the caresses.
June: forget your underwear
One morning, by mistake, you forget to wear underwear. Wear only a skirt and a t-shirt. As soon as you walk through the door, you will discover the new sensation of wind and air on your skin. All day long, savor this little taste of the forbidden and the secret that only you, until now, know.
At lunchtime, arrange to meet your partner by inviting him to slide his hand towards your private parts: he will discover that you have no underwear and his desire will become uncontrollable. that your outfit is perfect for an impromptu relationship.
The soft version: revisit the challenge in a more intimate way. On Sunday at home, or in the evening, wear a light t-shirt and a skirt without panties, make sure that your boyfriend hugs or touches you, he will soon realize the "surprise" and get too excited.
July: dare with the particular hair removal for the bikini area
If you are in favor of permanent and total hair removal of the whole body, know that for the partner this could be cause for extreme arousal. Another option: fancy hair removal. Heart-shaped, for example, and colored! The dyes for pubic hair are on the market in specialized shops. Fuchsia, fluorescent yellow or grass green ... so are you ready to dare?
The soft version
Don't you dare to do full hair removal, or are you not sure how your he will react? As an intermediate solution, you can opt to remove hair from the sides of the pubis and the contour of the labia majora, leaving only a small strip. The result is aesthetic and allows you to free some erogenous areas.
August: make love in 4 different places
Changing location to make love and improve sex life is a great idea when the couple's understanding is waning. Set yourself the goal of making love in 4 different places: if you are staying in a club, bet on 4 places unusual (sea, swimming pool, corridor and garden for example), etc. Making love in public places runs the risk of being seen, being imaginative and organized ... Many challenges that will spice up your sexual relations.
The soft version: bet on 4 rooms in the house or, more ambitious, on 4 "risky" places or situations: in front of the window, in the garden, in the bedroom, while your friends are in the living room, or before the imminent arrival of your in-laws for lunch.
September: Become a professional stripper
We call them "strip tease lessons" or burlesque lessons, because it sounds more chic, but the principle is the same: striptease!
During these sessions, you are taught how to drop your jacket, skirt and underwear to the beat, and sensuality please! In two or three sessions, you will learn to awaken the "sex bomb" inside you: atmosphere, make-up, clothing, choice of music, personalized choreography, nothing is left to chance.
The soft version: without necessarily having to take a course, try your hand at home with a sexy ballet with the help of feathers, chair, provocative lingerie ... just throw yourself in and it will be a success!
October: passionate about erotic literature
Sometimes the cold dulls the desire and the couple's life becomes flat. To improve your sex life you can rely on a book ...
Erotic literature, which has long been denigrated, is experiencing a revival of interest.
Gone are the days of the stories of blondes with XXL breasts and an old suitor with gray temples on the hood of a red convertible. Just connect to an online erotic literature site or go to an erotic bookstore. Fans and the curious will be able to discover practical guides, good books, novels or stories about sex.
Alternative version: try the stories in pictures.
Comics and graphic novels allow you to talk about sex without taboos and in a visual way without playing trash. A playful and intermediate way to discover erotic literature and to become more and more passionate.
November: plan a weekend as a couple
Treat yourself to a sensual weekend. Spice up your love life with hugs, hugs and more hugs! Two days in an environment of order, beauty, luxury, calm and voluptuousness, designed for couples looking for a fusion of the body. Prepare your luggage for two unforgettable days. Choose a charming hotel that inspires your sensuality.
The soft version: replace the weekend with a small couple's evening. Browse Internet guides and online restaurants for original addresses: for an Asian dinner that reminds you of a trip, for a trendy address to discover ... and of course according to your budget.
December: I get a bad toy for Christmas
Today there are shops with chic and playful items. You will find scented massage oils, edible powders, sexy lingerie, practical guides and ... the famous sextoys.
They are available in all types, shapes and colors. The hardest part is getting in there with courage ... it will be easy after all!
The soft version
Are you tempted by adventure, but don't like the idea of displaying your preferences in front of the cashier? Thanks to the Internet, you will have no more excuses not to succumb. Many sites offer the ability to buy adult toys online in strict confidence.
Here's where to buy sex toys:
- Vibrator 9 vibration modes - on Amazon for € 19.99
- Silicone Kegel Balls - on Amazon for € 28.99
- Vibrator with 20 modes - on Amazon for € 29.99