THE 6 MOST LOVED TV AND MOVIE COUPLES WHO ARE A BAD EXAMPLE - LOVE-E-PSYCHOLOGY

The 6 most loved movie and television couples ever that we shouldn't take as an example

They made us move, passionate, suffer and dream; are the most intense and romantic love stories that the small and big screen have given us over the years and in which we identified ourselves, coming to hope to be able to live them in reality in the name of a happy ending worthy of the most beautiful fairy tales of all But now we can admit it: perhaps we have a little exaggerated in believing that unlikely stories full of contradictions could always triumph over everything and everyone. Without losing the romanticism but with a little more realism, we try to delve into the most beautiful relationships that cinema has told us to avoid recreating them in reality. Yes, because most of them represent only bad examples of relationships, from which to stay away to safeguard oneself. Because to love means to feel good and not sacrifice oneself. Remember this well!

Here are the six most romantic love stories ever that represent, however, in the reality of relationships that are anything but healthy.

1. Carrie and Big

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We start with one of the most loved couples ever, the one formed by Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big, a complicated and exciting on-off relationship that lasted ten years, culminating in a marriage. Well women, it doesn't work like that in reality. Big is one of those selfish men you better run away from, trust me! Do you really think their love was a real fairy tale? Let me refresh your memory with these two images that summarize the entire sentimental story of the two characters.

Do you remember when the adorable Carrie, about to leave for a short vacation with her Big, shyly asks the man if she was the only woman in his life, hoping to receive the reassuring answer? obtains, but from then on he will have to undergo a series of confirmations to the contrary ...

Carrie is aware that she is in a toxic and masochistic relationship, but she believes that love is stronger than everything. Ok, she is a wonderful romantic heroine who unleashes all our support and admiration from the very first episode, but think about it. women, this is a beautiful show that made us dream, rejoice and cry, but in real life is it really worth it to hit rock bottom and sacrifice yourself for an unlikely happy ending?

2. Olivia Pope and President Fitzgerald Grant

Yes ok, they are beautiful together and there is no human being with a minimum of romance on this earth who does not hope for an absolute triumph of their love. But let's face it: how many married men leave their wives for true love? Here, we have already answered by ourselves. The situation worsens if one of the two represents an institutional figure, committed, even before loving freely, to safeguarding the image in the name of appearance and the rules of the social convention. In short, it is a losing game from the beginning: Fitz is only an insecure man who cannot pay the price for his feelings and who continues to delude the woman he loves and who will never be able to make happy.

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Do you really believe this is love? Perhaps it has more to do with selfishness and fear. A real man would let her go, aware of the pain that a complicated and dead end situation entails. In short, women, flee from committed men who promise to love you but who continue to not dissolve institutional ties and bonds. Love should generate love and not just torment and suffering.

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3. Ryan Atwood and Marissa Cooper

The one between Marissa and Ryan was one of the most tormented and beloved adolescent loves ever, a sort of modern Shakespearean tragedy, set in the 2000s, between American colleges, wild parties and luxury villas. In fact, it is no secret that two personalities like those represented by the two protagonists, if on the one hand they spark, on the other they have the ability to drag themselves to the bottom, perhaps because of a devastating and all-encompassing love that transcends itself to arrive at merge with the other. Although it is tremendously exciting and moving to witness two souls seeking and finding each other until they become one, in reality this can only lead to a self-destructive relationship: "love must" be first of all a guarantee of respect for oneself. Only by maintaining one's own personality can one enrich the other, without being drawn into a vortex of devastating and totalizing feelings that make one lose contact with a real dimension.

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4. Sandy and Danny

It is one of the most loved stories of all time, it has excited us and continues to make us dream, but think about it: to be loved by someone, it is really necessary to change your personality, conform to others, show off fashionable clothes and start smoking and drinking ? A man who does not accept you for who you are and who pushes for your change, especially aesthetic, is not at all a worthy companion with whom to share life. Stay away from those who don't love you as you are.

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If the guy you're dating hides by using the menu so that he won't be seen with you, whatever he tells you, consider it a bad sign and run away.

5. Romeo and Juliet

Romeo and Juliet remains one of the most romantic and poignant love stories ever and we will say nothing against the one that represents the best known and most loved Shakespearean tragedy to date as well as one of the noblest and purest forms of love conceived by literature. "to affirm that in real life, and not in a" work by the greatest English writer of all time, forging ahead and exposing oneself without a little caution can only cause damage.

Love at first sight is fine, love at first sight is fine, but every beginning of a relationship, even the deepest and most intense one, needs the right time to decant: you are not in a fairy tale, two people have need to know each other, without idealizations and without taking hurried steps.Take your time and you will enjoy even more the joys of a life for two.

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6. Rafe McCawley and Evelyn Johnson

Do you remember the complicated ménage à trois told in the film Pearl Harbor? there, while has made us passionate and excited like little girls, now, after some time and analyzing the facts with greater rationality, can we really talk about a love story? Maybe "dribbling" from a man to his best friend, every time one of the two thinks he is dead is not really an example of true love.

Yet the film was immensely successful and the haunted triangle of Evelyn, Danny and Rafe was hailed as one of the most loved love stories ever. In any case, we would like to advise you to avoid falling back on a friend of your former partner.