"BETWEEN US THERE IS CHEMISTRY": BECAUSE THE INITIAL PASSION TURNS INTO STABILITY

"Between us there is chemistry", "I feel a" crazy attraction for him "," I can't resist him "," Our story is explosive "... phrases that we pronounce, that we hear and that make us believe in "soul mate. Because the chemistry, brought up in love, gives it a scientific consistency, which makes our attraction for the partner a solid certainty!
But does this famous chemistry really exist?
Well girls, yes. When we concentrate on thinking carefully that falling in love is a chemical reaction of our organism, made up of neurons and hormones, perhaps the romance decreases, but ... love is just that: chemistry. And what happens then when this chemical process ends?
Let's find out together!
Meanwhile, look at all the benefits this wonderful chemical reaction could bring ...

1. What happens to us when we are attracted to "another person: the" smell

So let's start from an assumption: love involves non-verbal reactions, real synaptic connections (therefore chemical) inside our brain, and this is scientifically proven, even if it sounds anything but romantic. .
How do these connections between two different people, who attract each other, begin?
Pheromones, invisible molecules that are emitted from our body, are produced by glands located in the armpits, around the nipples and near the groin. Pheromones are chemical messengers that have the purpose of transmitting information between individuals of the same species: it is they who define whether a person attracts us or not.
Being odorless, they are not picked up by smell, but by a second system that perceives them. While men produce androstenol, present in sweat, women copulin, a pheromone present in vaginal secretions. If we like the smell of a person, we experience feelings of security and attraction. In short, if we fall in love with a person we must like their smell.

2. The phase of passion: continuous desire

Love involves all the senses: when we get infatuated, passion, attraction, emotions and the mind work together to make us lose our minds. What happens to us? It seems to be the fault of phenylethylamine (PEA), a neurotransmitter that increases chemical-physical performance.This molecule is very similar to amphetamine, it creates addiction and addiction as well as continuous excitement! Unfortunately, little by little the organism gets used to PEA, and within a maximum of 6 years these sensations wear off (clearly, if the partner remains the same you get used to it, but if you pass from flower to flower, PEA always remains active).
So the feeling of continuous arousal and overwhelming attraction tends to vanish, because, if it were not clear, it is PEA that stimulates the production of testosterone, the big man of sexual arousal, and of another neurotransmitter, dopamine, which acts. on numerous physical and psychological processes and which determines strong desires, as well as sexual ones.
At the beginning of the relationship, wouldn't we want to spend every moment with the loved one? Wouldn't we want it to last forever?
Thanks dopamine and thanks phenylethylamine! But how many bad jokes then ...

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3. The stable relationship: endorphins

The hormone involved in the construction of couple bonds would be oxytocin in women and vasopressin in men. These hormones, produced in low quantities, would determine the lack of predisposition to commitment in a stable couple, vice versa, if produced in large quantities they would imply the desire to build a bond.
What happens when we commit to a stable relationship and therefore only choose one mate?
Phenylethylamine no longer triggers the disruptive effects of the early stages of intercourse and the brain begins to produce other hormones: endorphins. The situation of well-being they provide, which resembles an analgesic and calming effect, given by the constant presence of the partner, translates into a very strong emotional relationship that one no longer wants to interrupt, however, at the expense of the strong initial passion that characterized the couple.

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Well then, love is a continuous chemical process. Does knowing this truth destroy romance, or make us more in control of our choices and aware of what we desire? We think the latter and therefore better exploit the sexual chemistry between you while it holds: see below how to make the most of it