100 questions for couples to get to know each other and make the relationship work
Whether you are a fresh or long-time couple, a civil and constructive confrontation is the key ingredient for your relationship to work seriously. This is why we have developed a long list of questions for you and your partner, some thorny, some spicy, some of a moving depth, in order to probe the ground and find out if you are really made for one. for the other and vice versa. It is therefore a test in which the answers to each of your questions could reveal valuable information about the person with whom you have chosen or are about to choose to share your life. Will your love story be ready to take off or is it likely to fall abruptly on landing? Is compatibility skyrocketing or is it better that you review the definition of feeling in the dictionary? Find out with this test!
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Questions for couples about the relationship
- If you were to associate love with an image, what would it be?
- In your opinion, what are 3 key ingredients for making a relationship work?
- What are the characteristics that your ideal partner should have?
- What are, however, the characteristics that your ideal partner should absolutely not have?
- How do you usually behave during a couple fight? And then?
- What is the first thing you look at in a person?
- What's the first thing you noticed in me?
- Cohabitation or marriage?
- How would you manage the division of housework?
- How would you like to celebrate your wedding?
- How many relationships have you had before me?
- How and why did your previous relationships end?
- What is your relationship with your exes?
- What is my best value?
- What's the thing that annoys you most about me?
- What would you like me to be better at and why? And you?
- When did you realize you wanted to be with me?
- What should I do to make you really happy?
- If you were having a hard time, what would you do to make me feel good?
- What should we work on to make our relationship better?
- If you had to dedicate a song to myself, what would it be?
- What's the biggest madness you've done for love?
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Questions for couples about family and the past
- In what family background did you grow up?
- What relationship do you have with your parents?
- What is the best memory related to your childhood?
- And the ugliest one?
- What kind of child were you?
- How are you similar to your mother and how to your father?
- How would you like to be different from your parents?
- What would you have done differently if you had been in your parents' shoes?
- Would you rather live near or away from your parents?
- Would you live near my family?
- If your parents didn't like me, what would you do?
- If my family weren't entirely convinced of our relationship, what would you do to get accepted?
- What is the biggest disappointment that you have given your parents and that they have given to you?
- How did you cope with a particularly difficult time in your past?
Questions for couples about jealousy
© Getty Images Couple questions about jealousy- Do you feel jealous if I look at another person?
- Does it bother you if I talk to your friends?
- What would you do if another person tried it with me?
- If I asked you, would you let me look at your phone?
- What do you think of the friendship between man and woman?
- Does it bother you if I talk about my former partners?
- What would you feel if I stayed on good terms with my / my exes?
- If you had a chance to have sex with another person, without getting caught, would you do it?
- If you cheated on me, would you tell me?
- If I betrayed you, would you want to know?
- Could you forgive a betrayal?
- If I left you for another person, how would you react?
- What would you do to get a betrayal forgiven?
- How would you behave if I told you I was attracted to another person, without having done anything to him?
Questions for couples about sex
© Getty Images- How important is sex to you in a relationship?
- How does it make you hear about sex openly with your partner?
- As a rule, how often should you have sex in a week?
- How long can you last without having sex?
- What's your biggest fantasy?
- What's your favorite position?
- Where do you like to be touched?
- What's the strangest place you've ever had sex?
- How important is foreplay to you?
- What is the most embarrassing memory you have related to sex?
- With whom and how was your first time? How old were you?
- What is the thing that excites you the most of all?
- What makes your desire abruptly subside?
- Would you like to experiment with sex toys in bed?
Questions for couples about having children
© Getty Images- Would you like to have children in the future?
- If so, how many children would you like?
- What values would you like to pass on to your children?
- If you were sterile and you wanted children, how would you behave?
- What would you like to teach your children?
- How would you set up your children's education?
- What is the thing that scares you the most about having children?
- At what age do you think it is right to become parents?
- What is the big mistake that, in your opinion, a parent could make?
- What would you never want your child to tell you?
Questions for couples at work
© Getty Images- How do you see yourself, working speaking, between now and 10 years?
- How important is work in your life?
- Would you ever sacrifice your family for work?
- Would you rather get the job you've always dreamed of or find true love?
- If you are moving for work reasons, would you accept a long-distance relationship?
- Would you quit your job, to move elsewhere with your partner?
- How would you feel if your partner earned more than you?
Questions for couples about leisure
© Getty Images Couple questions about free time- How do you usually spend the weekend?
- What do you like to do in your free time?
- Are you a sports person? If so, which sport do you prefer?
- Do you like traveling?
- If we could leave tomorrow, where would you like to go?
- Do you prefer to eat at home or at a restaurant?
- What is your ideal holiday? City of art or sea?
- What are your hobbies?
- What activities would you do as a couple with me?
- If I asked you to do something with me / for me that bores you tremendously, would you accept?
- What can you absolutely not give up?
- Would you be ready to do new things or do you prefer routine?
- What would you take to a desert island?
- Movie night and pizza or disco?
Questions for couples about old age
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- How do you imagine our days once we retire?
- If I was sick, how would you take care of me?
- How do you imagine sex after a certain age?
- If you had a choice, where would you prefer to spend old age?
- In your opinion, what is the secret to not getting tired after a life together?