Men to avoid: 10 categories to stay away from!
Although we know with certainty that in the real world there is no "perfect man," we can say with equal certainty that there is a series of men that it would be better to avoid. That's right: often, many of the sufferings that we inflict on ourselves in love, arise from a error of evaluation of the partner we have chosen. Because we feel the need to feel loved, because we justify the man in question because of our millenary and indestructible empathy, because, let's face it, often the men we deal with are also quite smart. Good, but so are we. And for our good, present and future, we must commit ourselves to be more careful in choosing the man we want by our side. those signals that can prevent us from future suffering. Framing a man and his personality without looking at him only with the eyes of love, but with greater clarity and objectivity, is an exercise in love towards ourselves that we cannot fail to do. Often, in fact, out of the desire to feel loved, we accept men and conditions that would not completely convince us, suffering suffering and discomforts of various kinds that impact not a little on our life, but it is important to recognize and choose what makes us feel good and discard everything that causes us pain and suffering, especially in In fact, the data regarding the number of violence suffered by women in our country are alarming, as you can see in this video.
Ten types of men to avoid
Some of the men described here implement real manipulative strategies to dominate the partner, exerting on her a form of psychological violence, often not recognized as such and mistaken for a simple couple dynamic due to normal misunderstandings. Others are simply unprepared to live a serious relationship and force their partner to settle for crumbs and suffer humiliation and disrespectful attitudes.
In fact, in many of these cases we talk about toxic relationships from which it is good to get out as soon as possible. To stay away from stories of this type, let's take a look at the categories of men to avoid so as not to find themselves living a problematic and painful life for two.
1. The narcissist
He presents himself to you as the perfect man, the one you have always expected. Attentive, super helpful and kind, he puts you at the center of his world, anticipates your every need and does everything to satisfy your tastes and desires. Yes, only in the beginning, though. Soon, this angelic patina will be replaced by an ambiguous and moody personality that will make your life hell. But how to recognize it? Generally, the man suffering from a narcissistic personality disorder is obsessed with his physical appearance and self-image and does everything to please others; he is also completely anaffective and thinks that everything is due to him, in addition to consider yourself a true Adonis and the master of the world Pay attention to how he treats others, especially in the very first phase of conquest where he will do everything to disguise his true identity, because that is his true face.
2. The man already engaged
If you think that conquering a man who is already engaged adds excitement and charm to the game of seduction, you are probably overlooking the fatal consequences that you will inevitably face. Yes, because with a man engaged, or even married, you don't mess around. The promises of a life for two will almost always be disregarded and what will remain there will be only sporadic and increasingly sparse moments, obviously based on his needs and commitments. Also, in most cases a man who carries on two parallel relationships will always tend to do so, so if you manage to get the better of it, you will have to take into account the possibility of a betrayal in the future. It can happen that you fall in love with a busy man, of course, but for it to be feasible and not lead to devastating consequences, the situation must be resolved within two to three months. If he tends to procrastinate and not leave his partner, give it to you. It is very likely that what she is looking for is just an "escape from her love routine, which she has no intention of breaking anyway!"
3. The mammon
You literally run away from the immature man and unable to manage himself. Does he still live with his mother and let her do everything? It is a clear sign that you are dealing with a person who does not know how to take responsibility and is used to establishing a bond addictive, emotional and more! You certainly don't want to be a mother?
4. The (apparently) perfect man
Well yes! Precisely because we have said that the perfect man does not exist in the real world, beware of those who try to be at all costs, because it is very likely that they are pretending. In most cases, the partner who appears to be the ideal man he will soon reveal himself as the classic prototype of the narcissist - which we have seen before. So pay attention to how he behaves with others and in situations that do not concern you: in those cases, not wanting to impress you and not having a double purpose, he shows himself for what he really is.
5. The eternal Peter Pan
On paper he is a pleasant and funny man, able to make you live moments full of lightness and positivity. But there's a problem: the eternal Peter Pan doesn't want a serious story, so if you're interested in living a solid relationship with a future, run away. In fact, in most cases the prototype of the Peter Pan man is sincere and immediately shows his real intentions, unlike the narcissist, who uses a series of manipulative tactics and ambiguous and conflicting attitudes. we women believe we can make him change his mind. Very wrong! Invest your time in something else and don't waste it on a man who doesn't want to stop. Or, keep it for a fleeting flirtation full of passion!
6. The passive-aggressive
The passive-aggressive man is a champion of victimization and does everything to make you feel guilty. Generally his tactic is to avoid direct confrontation, but to implement a series of passive-aggressive attitudes, in fact, that displace the partner because not expressed through correct and clear verbal communication, as would happen in a normal relationship. Here is what awaits you with such a man: silences, long faces, half sentences, small teasing and total indifference, all to attract your attention and make you totally depend on him, triggering in you a sense of guilt and inadequacy.
7. The pathological liar
Another man to be avoided like the plague, the pathological liar is capable of literally ruining your life. You will come to doubt everything and will never be able to establish a safe and healthy relationship. At the first signs, cut the rope. In fact, if a man is used to lying, playing games and telling half-truths, he will set all his relationships - and therefore also the love one - on these foundations.
8. The Don Giovanni
It can be exciting to be able to win a man who has eyes for all the women he meets, but you will never really be able to distract him from his mission: to please as many women as possible and to be revered continuously by the female gender. But be careful, the flame will last very little moreover, and after a while, away with "another conquest! The prototype of the Casanova man in fact fills the gaps and shortcomings of the past, conquering as many women as possible and will never be able to enter deep and full intimacy with none of these, so it will only be a waste of time and you will be devastated by the constant comparison with his other conquests.
9. The selfish
An overly selfish man is not very attentive to his partner's needs and will always tend to put himself first. Keep this in mind from the earliest stage of your meeting and pay attention to how he behaves with others. If he does not express feelings of courtesy and kindness, he is arrogant and presumptuous, it may be that even in the love relationship he will always tend to behave like a spoiled child. You would find yourself sacrificing yourself and your inclinations to indulge his and avoid outbursts and long faces.
10. The violent man
There is nothing to discuss about this category: if you are dealing with a violent man, you absolutely must escape! If the man you are dating has attitudes of excessive anger, pathological and uncontrolled jealousy and abrupt and disrespectful ways, before you suffer physical violence, you must take note of the situation and with lucidity choose to get out of it. If you think it is a complex and delicate situation, do not hesitate to contact expert structures and people who can adequately support you.
