Does your he do these 7 things? You probably won't get married ...
If your relationship wobbles, you need to understand if a home remedy is enough to make it stable again, a bit "like the paper towels that saved us from checking when the dealer had a shorter leg than the others, or you need to evaluate whether it is necessary to move to measures. more drastic.
After all, you know, in love you don't have to spare yourself ...
1. Try to change yourself
'Love but why don't you go to the gym?', 'How come you don't wear the shoes I gave you?', 'At Cinema? Still?'
If 93% of your conversations are made up of him trying to make you understand that you are doing it wrong whatever you do, it is time to put an end to these conversations.
It is one thing to smooth out one's defects, we all have them, needless to deny it, another is to try to denaturalize the person in front of us by trying to shape him in our image and likeness.
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2. He is convinced you are the queen of the house
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And until proven otherwise you are because you almost certainly know where all the utensils in the kitchen, the bedspreads and his clothes are, but this does not exempt him from helping you with the housework. A relationship that works, and where both are happy, is almost always based on "balance: if she doesn't want to help you now, there's a great chance that things won't get much better in the future ..."
3. It never pays for you
Money is not a state affair and it is absolutely wrong to pretend never to put your hand in your wallet every time a man invites us out. But if he doesn't even try to get close to his credit card when it's time to pay the bill, that might not be right. This is nothing more than an act of kindness which, of course, you can repay next time. Offering each other dinner, once each, means recognizing the value of the other.
4. Always wait for you to write first
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In the twenty-first century there is nothing wrong with taking the initiative unless you have to take it every day and several times a day ... A person who loves you is looking forward to seeing you and, if for a reason or for another should I look for her, she would do everything possible to be by your side.
Loving only those who love us is not always easy but sometimes it is necessary to be happy!
5. It doesn't make you feel protected
In a couple it is nice to know that you can count on the person next to you, to be aware that even if it is late and has not returned yet you have nothing to worry about. You know that with him you can face anything because his is a heart you know you can count on.
If, on the other hand, you tremble every time he is 5 in the morning and you often have to resolve issues by yourself ... Maybe there is an underlying problem!
6. Expects you to clarify
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After a bad fight, are you always the one to take matters into your own hands? It is hard to accept but it is very likely that he is avoiding his responsibilities. A person who wants to spend the rest of his life with you is not afraid to apologize and, above all, does not want to be angry with you for hours!
7. Let you give up
If you have a dream you have to fight for it to come true and, to do it, you need your personal cheerleader. In turn, of course, you will become a cheerleader when he needs it.
If it seems like he's not the one ... Just think about being happy.
