MALE MASTURBATION

The commonplaces

Our ancestors claimed that masturbation made you deaf, blind, and decreased the size of the penis. All this to dissuade men from practicing it. According to them, masturbating decreased the ability to reproduce, as it wasted sperm, which was thought to be limited in quantity. We breathe a sigh of relief: these clichés are completely false. 90% of men masturbate regularly and feel great. In fact, here are the main benefits ...

Physical need or pure pleasure?

Don't panic if you catch him in full action in the shower, it doesn't mean he's frustrated. The man masturbates to reach orgasm and get rid of sexual tension, but that's not all. It is a real physical need. The sexual organs of man produce and accumulate sperm, after a few days the body wants to expel this sperm to make room for the more recent one.

The ejaculation

The way your man masturbates has direct consequences for his sexuality. Too fast masturbation often causes premature ejaculation problems, so don't rush. Since adolescence, man must allow himself the time to discover his own body to be able to control ejaculation. By getting to know each other, he improves his ability to ejaculate and his performance in general.

Lubricate

Saliva, lubricating gel, moisturizing milk. Choose the one you prefer and lubricate your man's sex so that masturbation comes as close as possible to what he feels during penetration. Think about it especially if your boyfriend is circumcised: without proper lubrication there are risks of irritation.

The technique

Put your hand around your partner's erect penis. Hold it tightly without over-tightening. Caress the member from top to bottom and discover the movement and pressure that give it the most sensations. Don't hesitate to stimulate the testicles at the same time, some men love it. Does arousal rise and do you feel that it is about to reach orgasm? Speed up the movement if you want it to finish quickly or slow down to prolong the pleasure. The penis becomes very sensitive after ejaculation so stop stimulating it.

Masturbating your man

Physically and psychologically, men find this practice extremely exciting. As a preliminary or to achieve orgasm, here are some "international" techniques:
- the Spanish: the man puts sex in erection between your breasts and performs a waving movement. A tip: bring the breasts as close as possible to tighten the penis.
- the Greek: without penetration, the man slides his sex between your buttocks.
- the Thai: your lover holds your feet around his sex and moves his pelvis. Not necessarily the most effective method but it is highly appreciated by fetishists.