Seduction lessons
Practical exercises.
The old school
Adopt the Lady attitude and respect tradition. In a nutshell: do nothing. If you like someone and would like to get to know them better, let them take the first step. A lot of men don't like it when the woman reverses roles.
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But be careful: men can sometimes be a little shy.Often they are afraid to come forward, afraid of being rejected. Sometimes, therefore, you need to encourage them, giving them a sign of encouragement: a smile, a mischievous look and, above all ... trying not to get attached to your friend: the group effect can scare him ...
Let your body speak
You may not realize it, but your gestures and behaviors can say a lot and send unconscious signals to your interlocutors. So why not use them to seduce your prey?
Proceed to the famous 'eye contact' in three stages: a first furtive glance and, after a few moments, look at it intensely a little longer and, last time, give it the coup de grace by staring at it without looking down ... you could be clearer than that, without saying a word!
Never cross your arms on your chest, it is a sign of closure towards others; rather repeat her gestures, as in a mirror, lean forward a little (sign of openness) and, when she tells you about her life, show yourself particularly interested, nodding and slightly tilting your head to the side: men love to be listened to!
Simply put, practice one of those love tactics that animals know so well!
But be careful: he may not even be getting your signals. Do not be satisfied, therefore, to be a mime: exchanging a few words will certainly help you establish contact.
The Amazon method
As the advertisement says: the rules of the game have changed! Now women, grown by dint of Sex and the City and reassured by the models imposed by the media, they are no longer afraid to take the first step. They know what they want and always find ways to get it. If you have spotted your prey, go smoothly and conquer it by unleashing all your weapons of seduction. Start a conversation, smile and do not hesitate to establish physical contact: touch his arm, take advantage of the fact that you are in a crowded place to cling to him, approaching his ear to talk to him.
But be careful: men are fragile beings and your behavior could upset them. If you do everything yourself, they may feel attacked and have the impression that they have lost their manhood! Others will see you as an "easy" girl who just seeks a one night stand. Of course, then, it's up to you to understand what you are looking for ...
Cyber-seduction
A colleague, an old classmate found on Facebook or a stranger met online? Hidden behind a computer, even the most shy can flirt without risking exposing themselves too much. However, you have to take it easy. It begins by approaching neutral topics: travel, cinema, studies, current affairs (avoiding controversy) and thus creates a certain intellectual complicity. The next step is to push yourself a little further with phrases like: "I haven't been so in tune with someone for a long time ...", "it's nice to find someone who is on the same wavelength as me ...". At this point, there is a good chance that he will be the first to propose to meet you. It is then up to you to decide if and how to make things evolve.
But be careful: the drawbacks are not rare and have nothing virtual. The old classmate, the 5th A playboy, has become a fat bald and lustful man ... whoever said he looked like Jude Law, has in common with the actor only the color of his nose hair ... but let's see the positive side: at least you trained a little to seduce!
