Couple in suit? Crisis arrives
She at home with overalls, slippers, make-up removed and hair in disorder and He who does not care at all about the peeping belly, the growing beard and the omnipresent white sock. A classic, which however risks undermining one of the fundamental components of the relationship: eros.
Certainly in women this is more "striking", because the care of the body and appearance is traditionally attributed to her, but even the sloppy man, for those who live closely, has its own force of impact, obviously negative.
In these cases we tend to confuse intimacy with sloppiness, sharing with carelessness and disrespect for the other. A purely external manifestation which, however, implies very specific mental processes which, not infrequently, lead to breakdowns or the search for attention outside the ménage for two.
Given that it is fundamental and natural to feel the couple as a space in which they can freely show themselves in everyday life, it should not be forgotten that care does not conflict with comfort and it must also always be kept in mind that the partner at the beginning "also" wanted us to the way we looked. While it is true that over the years we inevitably change, it is also true that self-care is independent of age and the passage of time. Words: undefinedwords: undefined
See also:
- Gender: size matters
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