Nail drives nail: how useful it is and how to make it work
Who is this person you should accept in your life and who would come after a story that has marked you? Simple: someone who can help you come back to yourself. Often anguish, fear, guilt and anger bury us. A glimmer of lightheartedness, a flirt, a few compliments, text messages and hot sex can help us get back on our feet after an affair that has damaged us. We are not talking about a new love to invest in, quite the contrary! Quite the opposite: the nail drives out the nail, a sort of Charon who ferries back to the kingdom of the living, keeping the mind busy, reopening curiosity towards the world, transmitting new stimuli and new energy and repairing damaged self-esteem. And remembering that making love, pure and simple, is really good for your health:
1. Enjoy lightness
Don't think about it too much: the one who will keep you going must be taken lightly, you don't need the perfect man, on the contrary. You need the carefree man who can drag you into something simple, fun and without any pretense on both sides. Seize the day and Hakuna Matata!
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2. Abolish possession
Jealousy, possession, stakes, definitions: are you sure you want something so overwhelming again? Your nail to be light must be free of these limits. Limits that define the choice to stay as a couple. An emotional bond based on physical attraction and chemistry, to remain so, must be free of scenes and the idea that one has possession of the other. He will help you get back to the top, but you still need time to work out your end and find that each end marks a new beginning.
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3. Renew your self-esteem
Let yourself be wooed! Let them tell you how beautiful you are, believe us, come back radiant. One day a flower, another a song, another one more cunnilingus ... A nice smile will return, the calm after the storm will finally arrive, and the feeling of not having been, or not having done, slowly enough it will be just a distant memory.
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4. Be clear
No fake promises, no stressful claims, no ambiguity: clarity makes you feel good, subterfuges create sick, strange and harmful dynamics. Therefore? Immediate sincerity about the NOT willingness to put bricks to build houses, but only sticks to put up a temporary hut. At the first breath of wind, you want the freedom to be able to go away!
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5. Rediscover yourself
Take advantage of the freedom that such a superficial story gives you to work through who you have been and who you are transforming into, regardless of who you are currently dating. Living the new bond lightly is not the same as a loss of personal conscience: protect your space of intimacy and solitude to rediscover yourself stronger, more energetic and, despite everything, still full of desire to do!
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Rediscover the passion of your adolescence, for example by indulging in some more thrilling positions in the car:
