This is why Arisa no longer wants to wear the wig
There is no trick and there is no deception. Arisa retraces her steps and, a few days later, abandons - it would seem definitively - the idea of wearing a wig while waiting for her hair to grow back. The singer suffers, in fact, from trichotillomania, a disorder of nervous origin for which subjects tend to compulsively pull their hair during periods of particular stress. But to Arisa who, you know, loves the sincerity, is not interested in being appreciated for something that, in fact, does not belong to her.
"For the showers of likes on my beautiful wig, I will congratulate those who have done it, but this is me, whether you want it or not". A powerful statement of self-love, with which the woman invites her followers to love each other a little more and to ensure that "Our self-esteem does not depend on a like".
The value of a woman is measured beyond her aesthetic appearance
If Arisa has made this choice, it is because she likes herself like that, even with her hair almost neatly shaved, and she does not intend to deny her appearance only to obtain the consent of others. “I'm a human being, a woman and I'm sorry that a wig is a good way to make you love me. [...] make a woman think she is worth and be able to stay in the world beyond her physical appearance and how cool she can appear on social media, let there be more, observe carefully, listen, evaluate, grant me time and the opportunity to make you love me”, Explains the singer in the caption that accompanies the photo posted on Instagram in which she shows herself natural.
Of course, we cannot deny that the aesthetic aspect is important, but we try not to turn it into the main focus, or worse, into an obsession. There are other infinite resources in each of us that deserve to be cultivated with the same devotion, always putting personal well-being first. Arisa is, in fact, convinced that "We are all a precious well of surprises and skills, but we often allow ourselves to be influenced and get lost in a glass of water", closing the vent with an invitation that we all should scream at each other in front of the mirror: “COURAGE TYPE”.
We claim the right to be ourselves
The announcement of the singer was received with great enthusiasm by her followers, famous and not, who share the reflection and say they are fed up with the pressure on the aesthetic aspect with which women (and, surprisingly, some men too) , they have to deal daily. We are all good at preaching the value of freedom, a little less at putting it into practice. Let's follow Arisa's example and claim our freedom to be as we are, without transforming or disguising ourselves to feel accepted by a deviant society which, regardless of how we are, will always have to say. We can only applaud the words of Arisa, a woman with a beautiful head, but above all a thinking head.
