In 6 steps the real change of season: that of our inner wardrobe
How we appear to others and to ourselves, how we decide to appear, cannot but influence our emotions, sensations, perceptions, in a continuous reciprocal exchange. Not only that, we entrust memories, smells, fears, desires to our clothes, to our garments. The clothes we keep stored in our closet become objects that tell our story in all respects, and tell it to ourselves. This is why at the moment of the change of season, the contact with our inner closet sharpens, and the choices we make tell a lot about what we think of ourselves: it is the time for a real inner renewal.
If you don't know how to put your closet in order, here are some tips:
But what does it mean to put your inner wardrobe in order?
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1. Make important choices
When we open the wardrobe we already know that it would be better to make choices: to choose to change. Sometimes just a change of perspective is enough. Even changing colors has an influence on us. feel insecure, inadequate, not enough.Only by choosing to change you can make other important choices.
2. Knowing how to let go
Changing, throwing away the superfluous that you no longer wear and that only takes up space is very important. It's knowing how to say "I don't need it anymore". Here, it is tiring to give up something that has represented us for a long time, but everything that always makes us feel capable also somehow prevents our growth: evolving means having the courage to let go. In style as in life, it takes great inner strength to succeed.
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3. Knowing how to let go
We must learn to let go of what is not really important, not worry about the superfluous, at a certain point disinterested in what does not belong to us, go further, let go of control. If we no longer like something, if you have never represented something so much, if something is useless to take it with us, it takes away unnecessary energy and space: let it go. Sometimes it is enough to just forgive, and then he really lets go.
4. Give it a second chance
Something seems useless, old, buried, or is just still unused: we must give new life to the inner models that inspire us positivity, which are still full of life, which we can reinterpret. When a boss has not yet finished his journey, when a way of approaching things still excites us, there is something fertile to grow. That is the moment of the second chance: let's see where we arrive.
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5. Welcome the new, giving it space
Making room for the new is always a bit difficult, you have to optimize the old, be ready to welcome, prepare for change, and then know how to manage what you choose. A metaphor could be in basic clothing because they are practical to combine easily with many other things, always new in practice. Symbolically basic emotional pieces to combine with different ways of being: trust, empathy, resilience, emotions that change with respect to the people you are confronted with, just as a basic shirt can be splendid with a jacket particular, or it can be used for a running session in the gym!
6. Evolve
With the change of season the outside world evolves. The seasonal rhythm has been with us for some time and marks the time of life. So while each species adapts as it can to these moments of the year, the human being does not shed its skin and does not go into hibernation, but acts on its external and internal appearance. Opening this double door wardrobe means following the rhythm of life and choosing to evolve: the best chance we have in life, to always be different while remaining ourselves.
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And if you want to take advantage of the change of season to go shopping ...
