Does he just want sex? How to understand the signals
All commitment vanishes when you have hot dates, but for everything else is the invisible man? The time to ask yourself what you want from him, but above all what he really is looking for from you has arrived! If he is not what you hope he is, better find out now and stop wasting time, but first, you should take the opportunity to experience these!
- · 1. Be careful when he contacts you
- · 2. Think about what exactly you do together
- · 3. Listen to his words
- · 4. Don't lie to yourself
But let's get back to us. Below you will find our tips and pay attention to what he really does!
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1. Be careful when he contacts you
Late evening? Week end? Does he only answer you when you need to see each other? In short, friend, a moment of seriousness: if he wants you, it is certainly trivial, but he is looking for you. Now, objectively, the excuses for not responding to your "how are you?" they can be many, but how come instead he responds to "see you tonight"? And why is it always at the home of one of the two? Intuitive dear girl, use it, otherwise you will find yourself like My Martini by Minuetto.
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2. Think about what exactly you do together
Home, sex and ... "I have to escape", "just a bite and then I'll wake up early tomorrow"? Ever a public outing? Ever a hand in hand, a tenderness? But he is irresistible, we know. But that doesn't mean you have to limit yourself to a chat at work and then fellatio straight away. In short, if you press for a "normal" evening and find yourself with a series of refusals in your hand, play the same card and refuse it, but forever. Unless you need a toy boy ...
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3. Listen to his words
Never a word about him. Emotions outside the door. But the worst: never a question about yourself. Maybe hold momentary cuddles, but pure escape in the face of dialogue. Now, he is either shy from fear or something is certainly not right. Making love is sharing one's body and, with a certain naturalness, that of the mind and spirit should also take over, unless ... you have chosen to have a physical relationship only!
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4. Don't lie to yourself
If a man is elusive, a woman knows. This is what you need to know and it is the awareness you need. We hear what he wants from us and if we are to ignore the signs listed and are persistent in winning his heart, as well as his "business between the legs", then it is a personal struggle that we are embracing. We ask only this: be aware and respected.
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If, on the other hand, you're okay with him being your toy boy, well, don't forget to point out some other useful positions ... especially you!
