How to tell if he really likes me? The test to find out
You spend a lot of time with him and you start to like him, but feel something wrong? He may not be able to express his feelings, perhaps insecurity assails him, or he may not really like him. Whatever the answer, curiosity wins and you have to find out! How? Take the test below now.
The signs are there but they can be misinterpreted, so we always end up believing something that is to our advantage without realizing that we can be wrong. Do you think he likes you? Do you like a guy and don't know if he likes you too? Don't trust his sneaky looks, rely on our advice and discover the different ways to tell if he really likes you. Below you will find 5 aspects to observe.
Before continuing, watch the video and find out why you always attract the wrong people.
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1. Eye contact
If a guy is interested in you, he'll look at you a lot. Straight in the eye or covertly, it will look at you. You can try to get him to look at you or, if he's shy, he can look down if he notices your gaze.
Do you want to know what his level of interest is?
Look him in the eye for a few seconds, then look away, and finally look at him again.
He likes you:
If he keeps his eyes on you or increases eye contact, he'll be interested.
If his eyes are fixed on your mouth, he will definitely be interested.
If you look away quickly, then there will be interest on your part.
If he looks left, turns his head, and looks right, he is very interested in you.
He doesn't like you:
If he breaks eye contact with you.
If he starts looking around the room, he won't be interested in you.
Attention:
Do not confuse shyness with a simple disinterest of those who avoid eye contact and do not pay attention to you. If he's a shy guy, he'll keep looking at you multiple times. Be patient!
If you don't like him, maintaining eye contact can be uncomfortable. Stop looking at it and look around the room, as if you are looking for someone.
When he tells something and you are in a group of friends, he may look at you because he wants to see if you are also smiling at what he said. The gaze only lasts a second, but it means he wants to make a good impression on you.
2. The movement of the body
The way he moves his body is always a sign. It might be the best way to find out if he likes you. Body language experts have discovered 52 gestures in women through which they show interest. Men only have 10 movements.
Do not confuse innocent gestures with signs of love.
This will save you moments that could be embarrassing. Rely on gestures.
How to tell if he really likes me? Take this test:
- He looks at you often. Yes, we have already said it and we know it.
- He leans heavily on you. It is present in your personal space.
- If the direction of his body is facing you.
- He is more attentive to his appearance, he is calm and runs a hand through his hair ... If he does it suddenly, he is nervous: he wants to win you over.
- If she sits with her legs spread or her hands on her hips, try to impress yourself.
- If he likes you, you will notice that he will hardly turn his back on you, lean over you and look at you a lot.
- If he tucks his shoulders when he is around you, he will be a romantic and will be interested in what you have to say.
- If he points your shoulders and pelvis when he is sitting, he will definitely feel something for you.
3. Physical contact
Physical contact is very important in a relationship that is about to begin. His interest goes hand in hand with the way he touches you and the way he reacts when you touch him.
He likes you:
- He might put his hand on yours when he laughs.
- He might rub his leg on yours.
- He may hug you for small things, when he greets you for example, or to show his emotions while telling you a story, or just because "it seems like you need a hug".
At the same time, consider touching him to observe his reactions:
- take it by the forearm
- touch his neck with your hand
- put your hand on his after playing a joke on him
If he reciprocates these gestures and does not avoid you, he will be interested in you, if he leaves his hand fixed on your arm, on your leg without shame. On the other hand, if he shakes or takes his hand away, he won't be interested.
If he's a shy guy, he might get a little scared if he's not ready. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you - watch his reactions better after physical contact.
Beware of fake gallants or those who are "cascamorto" and enjoy groping all women. Make sure it doesn't do to you what it does to others.
4. Listening
If he likes you and is nervous, he will start talking about it. Men often feel the need to prove their manhood, especially when talking about another man in his presence. Measure their interest based on what you say. The truth is that it doesn't matter what you say, but how you say it so that he gives you a lot of information about his level of interest in you.
Give it a go:
- Lean on him.
- Whisper something.
- Touch his shoulder with your shoulder.
- To increase the expectation, touch his back.
- If he approaches and reciprocates physical contact or looks you in the eye, then he is interested.
If a man is not interested, better let it go. He himself may take you away from his personal space.
5. Respect for you
Aren't you single? It doesn't matter, if he's interested in you, he may start acting chivalrous or showing a protective attitude. It can be understood from gestures such as:
- He sits next to you.
- Pull her chair closer to yours.
- He puts his arm on the back of your chair.
- Leave his jacket hanging on your chair.
- He gives you his jacket if you say you feel cold.
But beware, there are guys who flirt with other women to get your attention, to see if you're jealous. However, it's easy to find out if in the midst of their flirting, they look at you to see how you react.
You can also hide and spy on him to see if he is still "playing" in your absence. If he stops as soon as you disappear, you'll know he's really interested in you and not her.
If you are sure of his interest, but you see that he is not taking any steps, you do it! Take control of the situation: better risk and then regret it in case.
Finally we want to tell you, if you follow these tips, you will undoubtedly find the right person and it will be easy to understand if they really like you.
