5 signs that you are now dependent on him (and it's not good)
Love is not always and only mutual exchange and the ability to see and respect the feelings and choices of others. Much more often than you imagine, you become morbidly bound to your partner, expecting the other to be able to take care of you. us 100%. With this idea we abandon ourselves to our partner, in the almost blind certainty, and total trust, that from that moment our life is in his hands, and vice versa. But emotional dependence is not a symptom of well-being, on the contrary, it causes frustration and unhappiness. Do you already have the feeling that you are morbidly dependent on your partner? Discover the 5 signs.
Meanwhile, you should add another good resolution to your list: "resolve emotional addictions", and then look at the other resolutions:
1. You are satisfied and happy only if he is there
You feel yourself only when he is with you. You have completely lost your emotional and non-emotional independence. You are happy only with him, and without him you only think about the next meeting and this at the expense of your personal life, in which you stagnate with no other desires for yourself that are not a function of his presence, or worse, of his approval.
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2. You are jealous of his friends
The world is only good if you are the center of it. His evenings with friends, starting soccer, afternoon coffees in your absence make you lose your head. Why do you give up all your free time for him, and he chooses friends, even without you? Because a relationship is made up of exchange. What do you exchange if you don't have your own independence? No to jealousy.
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3. You obsess about what he is doing
"What is he doing?": A question you ask yourself every time you don't know. And when you can't control her life, you feel like you're going crazy. If he doesn't see your Whatsapp message, paranoia creeps into your head, and interrupts your thoughts. If he views it and doesn't respond immediately then ... a fight can break out. In short: abolished the concept of privacy.
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4. You live in the anguish of losing it
The idea of losing him anguishes you tremendously. You would do anything to make sure that never happens. Including repudiating friends and family. You are so afraid of losing him that you are ready to change your values, personality traits, and willing to do so. love even when you don't like it: everything, just to please him regardless. Because you strongly believe that your life is less valuable without him. Completely forgetting that every life has a value in itself, and that love should raise who we are, not turn us into puppets.
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5. You feel guilty if you take personal space
Obviously, living in this way as a function of the other, a personal space seems like an affront to the relationship. So the sense of guilt always accompanies the relationship. the sense of guilt. On which the entire castle probably stands, a sand castle, however, destined to collapse at the first gust of wind, because if there is no respect and self-love, then there will never be room to love one's neighbor. Think about it.
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Then sometimes, just getting away from the person you depend on, with whom things don't go as they should, is a great opportunity for personal growth. If destiny reunites you again, you can find yourself more mature, adult and able to love you as you are. For example, look at these famous couples, they got married twice, with the same person:
